Sunday, May 8, 2011

The Doubters, The Skeptics, Those Who Are In Denial

The Doubters, The Skeptics, Those Who Are In Denial

It's Fear! It's Fear! It's Fear! When we repress a hurtful and traumatizing event, physical, emotional, or one as a result of unfulfilled needs causing neediness often we become doubters, skeptics, disbelievers, and are in denial. Our denial impacts our connection with reality. Our "selves" are impacted. The self is impacted with emotional shadow or with darkness. Again, the reason often is fear. We deny our fear. It's then that we can be in denial of a part of ourselves.

Our hurt and trauma physical, emotional, and neediness reflects pain. Pain can be processed using different methods that resonate with ourselves.
The emotional degree, depth, and dimension of our processing depends upon the nature of the hurt and trauma.

We may become less trustful and may have less faith in ourselves and others as well. Our ability to trust becomes challenged. Our relationships are impacted by our suppressed feelings reflective of our feelings/emotions of our anger, sadness and fear. The hurt and trauma impacts our ability to think. Our flexible intelligence is negatively impacted. It becomes difficult to think through an issue. It just becomes difficult to think clearly.

We can have a belief, a value, a lifestyle that keeps us stuck as well. Our beliefs, our values, and our lifestyles, can reflect our denial, skepticism and doubt as well.

We can be doubters, skeptics, and be in denial because of a lack of information, education, or just ignorance as well.

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Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A Masters of Psychology, Human Behavior.

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