Sunday, October 31, 2010

Donations Welcome

Donations Welcome

Donations are welcome payable to Life's Breath Publications and Ministries. Your donations are most certainly appreciated and needed. It will help me keep the lights on, continue my daily work that produces the posts.

Contact information is on my website., www.idaretoheal.com. Please purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I"m available for presentations in January for fees and expenses.

Many Blessings to My Readers and to All
Best
Joel V.
BA., education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychologyof Human Behavior

Thursday, October 28, 2010

It's Healthy to.......................

It's Healthy to.................

It's healthy to process your feelings reflective of your emotions reflective of your issues. Just think, if and when both individuals in a relationship process their feelings reflective of their own issues and consistently make a commitment to be loving and supportive of each other; in doing so, just think how wonderful a relationship can be. If and when you succeed at supporting each other in an alert, aware, loving, compassionate way (in touch, in eye contact, in body language, in words, in acceptance) then your intimate relationship can only deepen and expand.

I truly wish it upon all. Just think, true intimacy based upon sharing your most intimate of feelings reflective of you emotions with each other. Can a loving relationship get any better? I wonder just how many individuals have succeeded at a relationship of this kind? A relationship where "vulnerabilities" of the individuals become a catlyst for personal and spiritual growth!

There are those who frown upon introspection. Well, just perhaps a truly loving relationship is based on authentic introspection in a supportive loving way with each other. It's better than suppressing feelings with chocolate. Though, some if not many will prefer the chocolate? How about both chocolate and introspection!

If and when you happen to have just such a relationship then I think you are very, very fortunate. Both partners must have the will, willing, and willingness to make the commitment, acquire the methods, and follow through on the processing of the their feelings reflective of their emotions, reflective of their issues. It takes courage, faith, and acquiring methods by both partners to succeed in this spiritually highest of relationships.

I'm still seeking a partner who has the will, is willing, and has the willingness to effective/efficiently with discipline to address their underlying fear! Are you out there? If so, please contact me.

Please check out my website, http://www.idaretoheal.com/, purchase the books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'll be available in January for presentations for fees, and expenses, as well as counseling others on their co-dependencies.

Best
Joel V. BA., Education BBA., Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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Monday, October 25, 2010

the Synchronistic Power Of Spirit!

The Synchronistic Power of Spirit!

The candlelight co-dependence anonymous meeting was held this evening. "S" suggested that I lead the meeting. The Synchronistic Power of Spirit moved me to propose the topic of how an individuals "flaws" opens a door to our vulnerability which in turn opens a door to accessing, connecting with feelings reflective of emotions then transcending/transforming them through processing in effective/efficient and discipline ways. The result is a connection to our spiritual power.

I suggested that we speak to an about "paralyzing fear". Several participants were reluctant to share so I used compassionate patience to create adequate trust facilitating a loving environment. They shared their history of paralyzing fear in their lives. It was a major accomplishment for them to share their inner most terror in a darkened room full of anonymous strangers. It was the moving spiritual power that facilitated their sharing. I had little to do with it. I believe the spiritual power could be felt in the room during the meeting. I believe it was this spiritual power that moved the participants to share their inner most feelings reflective of their emotions. It was remarkable to be a witness to the synchronistic power of spirit.

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Joel V. BA., Education BBA., Business Admin M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Seeking a Partner who Feels their Feelings

Seeking a Partner who Feels their Feelings

Please E-mail or phone if you are seeking, like me your partner who dares to feel their feelings reflective of their emotions! Most definitely, I'm open and willing to teach a partner methods to process their feelings. I'm a very patient teacher who would be very willing to teach a female significant other methods to process their feelings. I'm seeking a partner in San Diego County, California who is in their early 50's!

It's quite a challenge to find a partner who has a will, is willing, and is committed to feel their feelings. When a person learns to feel their feelings reflective of emotions their fears, angers, sadness dissipate. More importantly, their is greater intimacy in the relationship with another.

In fact, the word intimacy reflects a profounder and far more fulfilling state of consciousness. Personal, spiritual growth, evolves, and the development of self becomes dynamic.

Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Check out my www.healthplansinsandiego.com as well. Medicare annual election period begins November 15th and I'm certified with many of the Medicare Supplement and Medicare Advantage Plans.

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Joel V. BA., education, BBA., Busines Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Chocolate

Chocolate

Often, I date. Often, I hear, "I use chocolate to suppress my feelings". Think, if we could only eat chocolate for the sake of enjoying its sweet taste and its other benefits. My opinion is, it gets very old hearing how humankind go every way they can to suppress feelings and repress painful events. Chocolate lovers unite against the use of its sweetness to suppress feelings reflective of emotions, reflective of the repression of events.

What's your opinion?

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Best
Joel V. BA., Education, BBA., Buiness Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior

Release of stress/Distress and Renewal of Self

Release of Stress/Distress and Renewal of Self

I work on straight commission. My income is mainly on straight commission. The health plans are difficult to sell but I do help people. It's tough when people do not phone me back after I have worked hard to help them find a plan that works for them. It's stressful and distressful.

However, I help people. I give them options that they would never consider. I add benefits and flexibility to their plans by giving them choices and saving them "grief" and money.

The methods of emotional release help me to help myself to renew the self, myself. The "Animated laughter with Feelings" and the other manifestations of emotional release are wonderful.

Just think, if you had the ability to actually "renew" the self, your self as "new" each and everyday. The "I", the "you", actually "comes clean". How refreshing. I feel cleansed from within!

I'm not afraid to feel my feelings. I look forward to feeling my feelings however deep I need to go to access them, connect with, release them again and again and again. It helps my immune system to get stronger. I'm emotionally stronger and my immune system gets stronger as well!

Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com. Please purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for presentations and counseling for fees and expenses.

Best
Joel V. BA, Education., BBA., Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Releasing Resentments

Releasing Resentment

The result of releasing resentments is peace of mind! How many of you carry accumulated resentments our whole lives. There are many resentments that human beings carry. The resentments of family of origin, the resentments of abandonment, separation, and betrayal; the trust issues. The resentments of estrangements between family members, the resentments that we've acquired because of divorce, employment, co-dependencies, physical/emotional abuse, physical limitations, developmental, environmental, biological, genetic, and cultural differences. We all have resentments.

When we have learned to connect with the "feelings" reflective of the "resentments" and have become to "process" them effectively/efficiently with disicpline on an on-going basis, gradually we free ourselves from them and experience peace of mind.
We can learn to process them through pray. We can learn to transcend the pain by way of prayer.

We must learn to "process" THEM. If and when we suppress the feelings reflective of the resentments; they become self consuming. The resentments consume the "self". The resentments "take charge" and bubble up again, and again, and again "into" our daily thoughts. We become controlled by them!

When we learn to "emotionally" release, relinquish, let go of, and trasmit them out, out of our mind, body, and spirit through a variety of methods; we free the "self" of them. We have transformed the feelings of resentment by emotionally processing them. I use the manifestations of emotional release effectively, and efficiently with disicpline to achieve this aim. I shall mention them again, animated laughter, the yawn, hot/cold sweats, shaking, chatterning, (reflective of fear), anger sounds, scratching (it's under my skin, and I just got to get it "out"), tears, sobbing, are among the emotional release components. The primal sound as well, if and when necessary.

My question is simple? Are you controlled by your resentment? Have you allowed them to accumulated in your emotional body? If so, I encourage you to take action and learn to access, connect with, go into, release, relinquish, let go, transmit the "feelings" reflective of the emotions out, out of your body; again, again, again and again. The process of transcendence and transformation is dynamic and empowering to the self!

Please check out my website at www.idaretoheal.com, please purhcase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please check out my other website at www.healthplansinsandiego.com and purchase a plan from me.

Best
Joel V. BA, education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Caution - Danger, Linear Thinker Ahead!

Caution - Danger, Linear Thinker Ahead!

I written about many causes of co-dependency. The following are additional thoughts of their causes.

Co-dependency can be caused by relationships with individuals who are "controlling" because of their "linear controlling" thinking, rigid cultural upbringing, or by belief, value, individual traits, or the ways an individuals have been hurt or traumatized in their lives. I've written a great deal about unfulfilled needs, and neediness as well as causes of co-dependency.

If you are in a relationship with someone who is a "linear thinker" then your life may be hell or it just may be heaven. It's hell if and when you are a multi-dimentional thinker, use flexible/artificial intelligence to address life's issues, and are not set in your ways, your life style, habits, beliefs, and values. If and when you "accept" and pattern your life style, habits, beliefs, and values after your partner then your relationship works really well. There is most likely harmony and peace in being together with your significant other. However, if and when your partner is a linear thinker with inflexible rigid beliefs, values, traits; it's then your life together is disjointed and you can have a "hell" of a time!

How is it for you? What is the context of your relationship together, in harmony or disharmony?
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Best
Joel V. BA., Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Opening the Mail.............

Opening the Mail...........

The mail has accumulated for the past three weeks. My journey to New York City and Barcelona, Spain culminated in the accumulation of mail. Well, when I opened the accumulated mail it emotionally triggered overwhelming "feelings" of deeply seated emotional terror reflecting my pattern of inherited "scarcity". The act of opening mail was akin to opening the door to pandora's (the devils) box or a kingdom to heaven. The mail contained statements of money owed by me to a variety of vendors.

Fortunately, I have the ability to "feel" my feelings reflective of my emotions that were triggered. I used "Peer Counseling" to connect with go into and access, release, relinquish, let go of, and trasmit the feelings out of my body. Faith returns!

Again, and again, and again, I allowed, permitted to feel my feelings. My sense of "scarcity" is my old pattern and it showed it's face. I met its intensity with tenacity and addressed the feelings zestfully with my manifestations of emotional release. Faith returns!

Last night, I slept like a newborn infant. As a result of my "release" re-evaluation "naturally" occurs. I began to resolve my sense of "scarcity". Reason and sanity returned. More importantly, I felt peace and began to experience resolution. Today, in the same mail, I received a gift from spirit. I received a check! Faith returns!

Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, please purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please check out my website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com as well.

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Joel V. BA., Education, BBA., Business Admin., M.A. Master's Human Behavior Psychology.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

The Pain is Still.........."There"!

The Pain is Still.........."There"1

Today, at a Co-dependence Anonymous meeting someone shared how a "therapist" make the rounds at meetings to "check it out".

Well, If "you" are one in psycho-therapy know that your awareness may be raised and "temporarily" you pain may be aliviated but most likely the pain will return, will be retriggered, will be restimulated!

If and when you have experienced this situation, know that additional methods must, must be explored by you to release, relinquish, let go of, transmit the "pain energy" out, out of your body.
Dependent upon the depth, degree, emotional or physical pain dimention the achievement of thorough healing may take some time.............. So, be prepared to learn additional healing methods. Be prepared to find new methods that resonate with you.

If you think medication will achieve that purpose then please think again! They are but temporary solutions to the "processing" the "work" that "calls" to be initiated effectively/efficiently and with discipline.

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Best
Joel V. BBA., Business Admin., BA., Education., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.

Where are you from?

Where are you from?

I just got to add this post from my joyful, successful visit with my family in Barcelona, Spain. First and foremost, my visit was successful because I respected their boundaries as they respected my boundaries.

I traveled by myself. I didn't want to but it is the way it is! However, I do get lonely but I'm never, never alone!

Where are you from? It's the way I resolve my loneliness most times. I see the anglo body language or hear the anglo dialect and instantly react/respond with "where are you from?
I met anglo's from Austrialia, United Kingdom, Wales, and the USA. Oddly enough, I met Americans mainly from San Francisco. I met Americans as well from Indianapolis, Columbus Ohio, Connecticut, New York, North Carolina, and Georgia. Conversation always ensues.
I met them mostly at places such as the Picasso, Maritine, Dali, and Art Museum of Catalanya. In addition, I met them at the famous music hall, the hotel, the metro, and the infomation booths.
Always, to begin the conversation, it was "Where are you from".

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Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin, M.A. Master's of Human Behavior, Psychology.

Need - Unfulfilled Need - Neediness

Need - Unfulfilled Need - Neediness

I was in a Co-dependence Anonymous support group yesterday comprised of twelve members. There were eleven women and one man. I was the only male present. I shared first and then the eleven women.

The women shared their unfulfilled needs and the pain of their neediness. I listened and felt sympathy, compassion, humbleness, and love for them and their expressed pain.
I realized that men also have unfulfilled needs and the pain of male neediness. Often, men just suppress their painful unfulfilled needs and the pain of their neediness. Men have a need to be listened to as well.

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Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Masters in Human Behavior Psychology

Saturday, October 9, 2010

HeartBreak

HeartBreak

I recieved a comment that "heartbreak" cannot be resolved in just a few steps. I absolutely agree. Heartbreak cannot be resolved in just a few steps! However, heartbreak most definitely can be resolved in a few steps if and when those steps are practiced consistently, repeated,, in an effective, efficient, and disciplined process.

Please go to my video on youtube.com, "Animated Laughter with Feelings". Please be alert/aware to the way I implement the few steps. Please also read "Forward to I Dare to Heal with Laughter!

You'll notice that I repeat the few steps again, and again, again, and again. I'm accessing, connecting with "feelings" reflective of "emotions" and releasing, relinquishing, letting go, trasmitting "pain" energy out of my body. This is the key in resolving the heartbreak emotion of grief, the profound "need" that is created when an emotional issue of this kind is experienced.

Please realize that it's an on-going, on-going, on-going "process" that requires repetition.

Please check out my website, www.idaretohealcom, purchase, purchase the books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love, and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". The books are powerful tools in explaining the process. Please check out my other website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com and purchase medical coverage. I'm an expert with Medicare Plans, Indiviudal Health, and Group Plans.

Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.