Caution - Danger, Linear Thinker Ahead!
I written about many causes of co-dependency. The following are additional thoughts of their causes.
Co-dependency can be caused by relationships with individuals who are "controlling" because of their "linear controlling" thinking, rigid cultural upbringing, or by belief, value, individual traits, or the ways an individuals have been hurt or traumatized in their lives. I've written a great deal about unfulfilled needs, and neediness as well as causes of co-dependency.
If you are in a relationship with someone who is a "linear thinker" then your life may be hell or it just may be heaven. It's hell if and when you are a multi-dimentional thinker, use flexible/artificial intelligence to address life's issues, and are not set in your ways, your life style, habits, beliefs, and values. If and when you "accept" and pattern your life style, habits, beliefs, and values after your partner then your relationship works really well. There is most likely harmony and peace in being together with your significant other. However, if and when your partner is a linear thinker with inflexible rigid beliefs, values, traits; it's then your life together is disjointed and you can have a "hell" of a time!
How is it for you? What is the context of your relationship together, in harmony or disharmony?
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Joel V. BA., Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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