Control by Manipulation

Control by Manipulation

If and when one experiences "Control by Manipulation" it's important to speak up and assert ones voice. The "Control by Manipulation" can be direct, glib, spoken quickly, intellectualized, voiced with anger, or subtle. However it is experienced it' comes from someone who has suppressed, accumulated, emotional pain. It's really a "crying out" in "neediness" to be loved by a being who is "desperately" in need of integrating the self. It comes from the two of the four categories of unfulfilled needs, past frozen chronic and past chronic.

However it is expressed, whatever is expressed, what is so about "Control by Manipulation" is that it's ugly and it is cruel. It's painful for and to others. If and when one is "emotionally" atuned to it's sound, it's feel, it's dissonance; one can respond by contradicting it immediately. When ever one contradicts it; it definitely needs to be contradicted, revealed, and the controller must learn that others are aware of it and alert to it! Others are aware of it and not buying into it.

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Joel V. BA., Education, BBA., Business Admin., M.A. Masters of Art Psycholgoy Human Behavior.