Resolving Your Co-Dependence
I just left a co-dependent meeting where enough new participants were "stuck" in their stories, their dramas of anxiety, fear, depression, neediness, hopelessness, and disconnect from God (their higher power).
Several of the experienced participants shared their hope, their strength, their experience, their improved connection to their family members, and their connection to God and their higher power.
In the USA there definitely is drama to many stories. I'm sure it exists in many countries. I'd like to point out Elin Woods story. How she is matter of fact even though as she claims "has been through a great deal".
I lived seven years in Scandinavia and speak fluently a Scandinavian language. Elin is Swedish. As I assimilated into the society, I also learned to become quite matter a fact about situations, circumstances, and life's issues. However, I didn't disconnect emotionally from my feelings. It's different elsewhere, in other countries. Of course, it's inapproriate to "generalize".
In Scandnavia, I learned Re-evaluation Co-counseling or rc.org. I "disciplined" myself I learned it was natural to feel my feelings (connect and release, relinquish, let go, trasmit pain and painful feelings "out" of my body, in a disciplined way), and learned to effectively/efficiently use the ten or eleven manifestations of emotional release; animated laughter, elongated yawn, tearing, sobbing, shaking, chattering, hot, cold sweats, anger sounds/movements, scratching (it's under my skin and I just need to get it out) to move the energy out of body and "transform". I learned primal sound which enabled me to "go deeper" into my "stuck" emotions, access them, and then release, relinquish, let go, and even trasmit those feelings reflective of my emotions out of my body. I learned it was "natural", liberating, and precious to do so! The discipline to do so helped me in a huge way with both the pain I experienced having a total knee replacement and a total hip replacement. No, it's not a "mood" disorder. For haven sakes, psychologists, psychiatrists, please stop with your insanity diagnosis reflective of the DSM-IV. I know the game, "you need a diagnosis". Please tell your practitioner to get their head out, out of the DSM-IV. Truely, there are many compassionate, good, helpful psychiatrists, and psychologists.
One way therapy is but the beginning of the process world!
You are in charge and not your patterns. I know it's quite difficult to "discern" the difference between the patterns and "yourself"! The anxiety, fear, sad, anger, neediness, depression gets, gets in the way. I have great compassion for those who struggle, who suffer. I was one of you 40 years ago.
I have to admit the training I received going for my Marriage Family Therapy License was and is the pits. It's the reason I got my Master's in Human Behavior. The rigidities that exist in the profession and humankind contradict integration of self and not enhance the integration of self. I can tell you stories but I won't.
I think, truely, think it's time for humankind to just "get real" and educate themselves on accessing, connecting to, and learning the different manifestations of emotional release and become "well"! The knee jerk reaction by many is to become defensive, denial, and go deaf. It's all "fear"; it's all patterns. The patterns are boring, quick frankly. Whether it's negative ego, controlling rigidity, or ignorance, beliefs, values, and/or traits. It's still "patterns" reflective of "fear".
When you have released, relinquished, let go of, trasmitted the pain out of your body, what's left. Self-Love, Grace, Kindness, Caring, Affection, Connection to God, Authentic connection to others, Compassion, Forgiveness, Hope, Faith, Charity, Good Will, Peace, and Contentment.
Trust me, it really, really feels good! I truely wish it within everyone. It's the only way to be.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependency issues here in San Diego, California. Please check out my website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com and purchase individual medical insurance, MediCare insurance (certified in most of the companies) or small group medical.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin. M.A. Masters of Psychology, Human Behavior.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Gaining Your Exposure/Promoting Your Product/Service on My Blog!
Gaining Your Exposure/Promoting Your Product/Service on My Blog!
I receive many comments with websites. Readers, definitely read "comments"!. I'm most certainly happy to allow/permit your comments with, with promoting your websites! However, I ask a fee to allow/permit your comments with, with promoting your website! I am certainly open to all who have legitimate websites and offer a legitimate product or even a legitimate service. I realize how challenging it can be to promote your worthwhile message.
They include manufacturers, publishers, licensed and non-licensed practitioners/professionals, trades people. I've received comments from many, many of you. I reserve the right to use discernment regarding your websites/comments.
I assume you will want to promote your websites on the most visited posts. I don't have an issue with you commenting on those most popular of posts. I simply ask that I been paid by way of my website in the purchase of both, both of my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power"! I will be publishing eventually my third book in the future as well. I will happily accept payment by way of paypal through the website, www.idaretoheal.com. Please let me know of the purchase of my books with the aim of allowing/permiting your promotional websites by way of your comments. Please send your comments with your promotional material before, before you purchase my books. I will notify you by E-mail to go ahead and purchase both, both "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love, and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". When I receive confimation of purchase by way of paypal, I will allow/permit your comment with your website. Purchase must be both books by way of my website. This means the full price of the books. The copies sell together for $37.00 paid in American Dollars. If you have any questions regarding this post please feel free to phone me or contact me by way of E-mail, info@idaretoeheal.com.
I'm available for counseling in San Diego on Co-dependency Issues, control, compliance, denial, low-self-esteem issues. Please also check out my website www.healthplansinsandiego.com. I specialize in Medicare Plans, Individual Health Plans, and Small Group Medical (all the major commercial insurers). I've been licensed as an Agent/Broker since 1986.
Best
Joel V BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
I receive many comments with websites. Readers, definitely read "comments"!. I'm most certainly happy to allow/permit your comments with, with promoting your websites! However, I ask a fee to allow/permit your comments with, with promoting your website! I am certainly open to all who have legitimate websites and offer a legitimate product or even a legitimate service. I realize how challenging it can be to promote your worthwhile message.
They include manufacturers, publishers, licensed and non-licensed practitioners/professionals, trades people. I've received comments from many, many of you. I reserve the right to use discernment regarding your websites/comments.
I assume you will want to promote your websites on the most visited posts. I don't have an issue with you commenting on those most popular of posts. I simply ask that I been paid by way of my website in the purchase of both, both of my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power"! I will be publishing eventually my third book in the future as well. I will happily accept payment by way of paypal through the website, www.idaretoheal.com. Please let me know of the purchase of my books with the aim of allowing/permiting your promotional websites by way of your comments. Please send your comments with your promotional material before, before you purchase my books. I will notify you by E-mail to go ahead and purchase both, both "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love, and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". When I receive confimation of purchase by way of paypal, I will allow/permit your comment with your website. Purchase must be both books by way of my website. This means the full price of the books. The copies sell together for $37.00 paid in American Dollars. If you have any questions regarding this post please feel free to phone me or contact me by way of E-mail, info@idaretoeheal.com.
I'm available for counseling in San Diego on Co-dependency Issues, control, compliance, denial, low-self-esteem issues. Please also check out my website www.healthplansinsandiego.com. I specialize in Medicare Plans, Individual Health Plans, and Small Group Medical (all the major commercial insurers). I've been licensed as an Agent/Broker since 1986.
Best
Joel V BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Pleasers, Compliers, Fixers continued
Pleasers, Compliers, Fixers continued.
There are additional co-dependent patterns that reflect pleasers, compliers, fixers.
I make decisions without regard to the consequences.
I am afraid to express my beliefs, opinions, and feelings when they differ from others.
I give up my truth to gain approval from others or to avoid change.
copied from the world coda link.
Are you guilty of any of the above. If and when you feel guilt or shame, please don't. It's a hurt and a trauma that you were not responsible for. Now, is the time to be gentle and kind to yourself. Again, the underlying pain that perpetuates the above behavior is reflective of "neediness". I wrote about the four unfulfilled needs, unfulfilled frozen chronic past, unfulfilled chronic past, unfulfilled past acute, and present unfulfilled needs. Any of these unfulfilled needs can reflect the pain of a co-dependents suppressed neediness. "Neediness" is not always apparent to a co-dependent. The "neediness" can manifest itself in the form of anxiety, depression, or fear. It's confusing for the codependent. It's very difficult for the codependent to separate themselves from their neediness. If and when they could they would be able to get the profound difference of themselves and their pattern of "Neediness". It's confusing for the co-dependent when they have the parasites that are imprinted, embedded, hard wired, compulsive, and deeply rooted.
I will speak about the contradictions to the co-dependents unhealthy behavior to please, comply, and to fix in future posts.
My website is http://www.idaretoheal.com/. My books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power" can be purchased on the website. I'm available to counsel others on their condependent issues. Contact information is on my website. Please check out my other website if you need medical/medicare/medical coverage at http://www.healthplansinsandiego.com/.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
There are additional co-dependent patterns that reflect pleasers, compliers, fixers.
I make decisions without regard to the consequences.
I am afraid to express my beliefs, opinions, and feelings when they differ from others.
I give up my truth to gain approval from others or to avoid change.
copied from the world coda link.
Are you guilty of any of the above. If and when you feel guilt or shame, please don't. It's a hurt and a trauma that you were not responsible for. Now, is the time to be gentle and kind to yourself. Again, the underlying pain that perpetuates the above behavior is reflective of "neediness". I wrote about the four unfulfilled needs, unfulfilled frozen chronic past, unfulfilled chronic past, unfulfilled past acute, and present unfulfilled needs. Any of these unfulfilled needs can reflect the pain of a co-dependents suppressed neediness. "Neediness" is not always apparent to a co-dependent. The "neediness" can manifest itself in the form of anxiety, depression, or fear. It's confusing for the codependent. It's very difficult for the codependent to separate themselves from their neediness. If and when they could they would be able to get the profound difference of themselves and their pattern of "Neediness". It's confusing for the co-dependent when they have the parasites that are imprinted, embedded, hard wired, compulsive, and deeply rooted.
I will speak about the contradictions to the co-dependents unhealthy behavior to please, comply, and to fix in future posts.
My website is http://www.idaretoheal.com/. My books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power" can be purchased on the website. I'm available to counsel others on their condependent issues. Contact information is on my website. Please check out my other website if you need medical/medicare/medical coverage at http://www.healthplansinsandiego.com/.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
Friday, August 27, 2010
Scams On-Line!
Scams On-line!
My goal is to improve the wide world by sharing what I've learned about self-improvement, personal growth, over the past 43 years. It would be nice to earn a living from what I share with you. I have faith that I eventually will earn a living from my work because I'm tenacious and share as best as I can with others my insights, experiences, hope, faith.
I receive E-mails describing ways I can earn a living from a variety of recipients. I don't think it's appropriate to specifically name them. So, I won't. However, I can alert the wide world to some of the specifics regarding the E-mails. I like sunshine ie., I don't like cunning deception. I don't like when the scammers hurt and traumatize people.
For example: If and when the recording doesn't give specifics about their revolutionary system that will generate thousands of dollars. The speaker always will return with the theme of "making a lot of money', quick! For example, when the visuals include lots of detail of sums of money being earned. For example, when the speaker's tone is "glib", lacks animation. For example, when the speaker claims that you must be "quick to respond" and purchase this once in a life time opportunity. For example, when the speaker offers a fantastic discount if and when you don't act to purchase the product initially. For example, when the speak claims that he has earned thousands of dollars from his creation. For example, if and when his scam is created in a professional but very slick way. For example if and when he/she claims to be very, very, successful. For example, if and when he/she claims it's a no brainer, it's "easy". For example, if and when there is no, is no solid contact information with address, phone number, and clear refund policy. For example, if what is offered is in "limited" quantity. For example, if and when the speaker returns again and again in his pitch to "acting quickly to make, to make the purchase of the product. For example, if and when it is "initially" offered at a "reasonable" price that just, just cannot be passed up. For example, if and when it "sounds" too, too, good to be true, then it just might be "too, too, good to be true! For example, if and when I receive negative, invalidating put downs for writing this post. For example, if and when one is inwardly vulnerable to "neediness" and it reflects a "need" to earn a living to pay your bills. I hope these examples will help my readers to stay alert/aware of those who are professional scammers and will, "work on", "work cunningly", "work assured, your vulnerabilities to scam you.
Please check out my website at http://www.idaretoheal.com/ and purchase my books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependent issues here in San Diego. I'm also available to do presentations, for fee and expenses. Please also check out my http://www.healthplansinsandiego.com/. I'm an expert with Medical Coverage, Medicare Plans, Individual Health, and Small Group Coverage.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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My goal is to improve the wide world by sharing what I've learned about self-improvement, personal growth, over the past 43 years. It would be nice to earn a living from what I share with you. I have faith that I eventually will earn a living from my work because I'm tenacious and share as best as I can with others my insights, experiences, hope, faith.
I receive E-mails describing ways I can earn a living from a variety of recipients. I don't think it's appropriate to specifically name them. So, I won't. However, I can alert the wide world to some of the specifics regarding the E-mails. I like sunshine ie., I don't like cunning deception. I don't like when the scammers hurt and traumatize people.
For example: If and when the recording doesn't give specifics about their revolutionary system that will generate thousands of dollars. The speaker always will return with the theme of "making a lot of money', quick! For example, when the visuals include lots of detail of sums of money being earned. For example, when the speaker's tone is "glib", lacks animation. For example, when the speaker claims that you must be "quick to respond" and purchase this once in a life time opportunity. For example, when the speaker offers a fantastic discount if and when you don't act to purchase the product initially. For example, when the speak claims that he has earned thousands of dollars from his creation. For example, if and when his scam is created in a professional but very slick way. For example if and when he/she claims to be very, very, successful. For example, if and when he/she claims it's a no brainer, it's "easy". For example, if and when there is no, is no solid contact information with address, phone number, and clear refund policy. For example, if what is offered is in "limited" quantity. For example, if and when the speaker returns again and again in his pitch to "acting quickly to make, to make the purchase of the product. For example, if and when it is "initially" offered at a "reasonable" price that just, just cannot be passed up. For example, if and when it "sounds" too, too, good to be true, then it just might be "too, too, good to be true! For example, if and when I receive negative, invalidating put downs for writing this post. For example, if and when one is inwardly vulnerable to "neediness" and it reflects a "need" to earn a living to pay your bills. I hope these examples will help my readers to stay alert/aware of those who are professional scammers and will, "work on", "work cunningly", "work assured, your vulnerabilities to scam you.
Please check out my website at http://www.idaretoheal.com/ and purchase my books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependent issues here in San Diego. I'm also available to do presentations, for fee and expenses. Please also check out my http://www.healthplansinsandiego.com/. I'm an expert with Medical Coverage, Medicare Plans, Individual Health, and Small Group Coverage.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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Tuesday, August 24, 2010
The Pleasers, Compliers, Fixers
The Pleasers, Compliers, Fixers
There are times when I just cannot help but to write, write, write. If you have read any of my posts then you would understand that I'm addicted to writing. I'm sure as addictions go writing is a healthy and positive addiction, wouldn't you agree?
There are four main categories of co-dependency, controllers, compliers, those who are in denial, and low self-esteemers. I've written about controllers and now it's time for the pleasers, compliers, and fixers.
Compliance Patterns:
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I compromise my own values and integrity to avoid rejection or others' anger.
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I am very sensitive to how others are feeling and feel the same.
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I am extremely loyal, remaining in harmful situations too long.
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I value others' opinions and feelings more than my own and am afraid to express differing opinions and feelings of my own.
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I put aside my own interests and hobbies in order to do what others want.
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I accept sex when I want love.
copied from the Co-dependents Anonymous website
The above compliance, pleasers, fixers patterns are but the tip of the iceberg. Humankind "buy into" patterns of compliance because of a variety of reasons. Again, a human being can be "very needy" and complies, or is willing to please or strives to fix a situation or circumstance to "make it ok" and delusionary or illusionary make themselves ok?
It may just be a "normal" pattern of behavior that was learned in the family of origin or a pattern that a person was exposed to again, again, and again. They learned just to "accept" that it is "just" the way it "should" be or "suppose" to be. It may be a learned unconscious belief, value, or even a genetically coded human "trait". It may be a hurt or trauma that has it's basis that began because of fear of an authority/authoritarian figure. It may be the result of experiencing a "survival" lifestyle and therefore a pattern that came about because of necessity. There can be many, many, reasons. Whatever the reasons may be the pattern causes low-self esteem.
Some may be aware/alert to being a pleaser, complier, and fixer. Some may not even be conscious of it because they "Accept" it, the pattern as part of themselves or "Self-Evident"? Well it's a pattern that is "Self-Destructive" and the pleaser, complier, fixer suppresses his/her painful feelings reflective of their emotions, anger through rage, fear through terror, and sadness through grief. The feelings reflective of the emotions are suppressed and the "self" suffers. It's no fun!
The individual may experience anxiety and/or depression. Happiness and Self becomes elusive. The human being may sense that they are "lost". Life is not what it seems to be. Can you relate?
PLease check out my website at http://www.idaretoheal.com/, purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available to counsel others on their co-dependency issues. Donations to the website and made 0ut to Life's Breath Publications and Ministries are accepted for my posts and professional services. My contact info in on my website.
Best
Joel V BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
There are times when I just cannot help but to write, write, write. If you have read any of my posts then you would understand that I'm addicted to writing. I'm sure as addictions go writing is a healthy and positive addiction, wouldn't you agree?
There are four main categories of co-dependency, controllers, compliers, those who are in denial, and low self-esteemers. I've written about controllers and now it's time for the pleasers, compliers, and fixers.
Compliance Patterns:
•
I compromise my own values and integrity to avoid rejection or others' anger.
•
I am very sensitive to how others are feeling and feel the same.
•
I am extremely loyal, remaining in harmful situations too long.
•
I value others' opinions and feelings more than my own and am afraid to express differing opinions and feelings of my own.
•
I put aside my own interests and hobbies in order to do what others want.
•
I accept sex when I want love.
copied from the Co-dependents Anonymous website
The above compliance, pleasers, fixers patterns are but the tip of the iceberg. Humankind "buy into" patterns of compliance because of a variety of reasons. Again, a human being can be "very needy" and complies, or is willing to please or strives to fix a situation or circumstance to "make it ok" and delusionary or illusionary make themselves ok?
It may just be a "normal" pattern of behavior that was learned in the family of origin or a pattern that a person was exposed to again, again, and again. They learned just to "accept" that it is "just" the way it "should" be or "suppose" to be. It may be a learned unconscious belief, value, or even a genetically coded human "trait". It may be a hurt or trauma that has it's basis that began because of fear of an authority/authoritarian figure. It may be the result of experiencing a "survival" lifestyle and therefore a pattern that came about because of necessity. There can be many, many, reasons. Whatever the reasons may be the pattern causes low-self esteem.
Some may be aware/alert to being a pleaser, complier, and fixer. Some may not even be conscious of it because they "Accept" it, the pattern as part of themselves or "Self-Evident"? Well it's a pattern that is "Self-Destructive" and the pleaser, complier, fixer suppresses his/her painful feelings reflective of their emotions, anger through rage, fear through terror, and sadness through grief. The feelings reflective of the emotions are suppressed and the "self" suffers. It's no fun!
The individual may experience anxiety and/or depression. Happiness and Self becomes elusive. The human being may sense that they are "lost". Life is not what it seems to be. Can you relate?
PLease check out my website at http://www.idaretoheal.com/, purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available to counsel others on their co-dependency issues. Donations to the website and made 0ut to Life's Breath Publications and Ministries are accepted for my posts and professional services. My contact info in on my website.
Best
Joel V BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Learning the Methods so one can Process!
Learning the Methods so one can Process
It's not enough to become aware of/alert to ones' issues. Often, in psycho-therapy one becomes aware of/alert to ones' issues. It's certainly an important step to become conscious of them. However, it's far, far from enough in resolving the emotional pain, and irrational/unhealthy behaviors.
It's great that one has had a will, willing (an intention), and the willingness (proactive/actiing on the intention) to become aware of/alert to ones' issues. It's yet another essential step to learn methods/processes to effectively/efficiently to "resolve" them. It can take a very proactive/ambition to thoroughly emotionally process, resolve, and integrate the self. It can very well take a lifetime even with the best of processes. It can also happen instantaneously?
The methods can vary. Please read my "Letter to Petra". The question I have is what methods work for you?
Yes, there is struggle/suffering. However, the struggle/suffering can be but momentary. If and when, if and when one has dynamic methods/processes that are effective/efficient then personal growth, upward trend, spiritual connection, greater self-connection is achieved within a moment.
There is hope. Fortunately nature provides that hope. Nature will bring, will bring methods/processes to an individual that resonates with them. So, please allow yourself to be open, be open to them. Please allow and permit yourself to surrender to what the universe is bringing to you, to you, to you. Strange isn't it! Nature wants humankind to be free of distress. It's just so!
Humankind and Spiritual love, compassion and spiritual power are most definitely some of those elements belonging to a variety of methods that facilitate/transform/transcend our processing of the feelings (the pain) reflective of our emotions that culminate in love, harmony, joy, grace, forgiveness, releasing resentments, peace, contentment, good will, charity, and freedom.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my two books (purchase a bunch of them and please give them to many deserving people), "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Check out my other website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com and buy some medical coverage. You can apply right on-line. Life's Breath Publication and Ministries is certainly open to donations (contact info on my website). I appreciate your charity support so I can continue posting to my blog, "I Dare to Heal".
Best
Joel V. BA, Education (California Credential), BBA, Business Education,
M.A., Psychology of Human Behavior
It's not enough to become aware of/alert to ones' issues. Often, in psycho-therapy one becomes aware of/alert to ones' issues. It's certainly an important step to become conscious of them. However, it's far, far from enough in resolving the emotional pain, and irrational/unhealthy behaviors.
It's great that one has had a will, willing (an intention), and the willingness (proactive/actiing on the intention) to become aware of/alert to ones' issues. It's yet another essential step to learn methods/processes to effectively/efficiently to "resolve" them. It can take a very proactive/ambition to thoroughly emotionally process, resolve, and integrate the self. It can very well take a lifetime even with the best of processes. It can also happen instantaneously?
The methods can vary. Please read my "Letter to Petra". The question I have is what methods work for you?
Yes, there is struggle/suffering. However, the struggle/suffering can be but momentary. If and when, if and when one has dynamic methods/processes that are effective/efficient then personal growth, upward trend, spiritual connection, greater self-connection is achieved within a moment.
There is hope. Fortunately nature provides that hope. Nature will bring, will bring methods/processes to an individual that resonates with them. So, please allow yourself to be open, be open to them. Please allow and permit yourself to surrender to what the universe is bringing to you, to you, to you. Strange isn't it! Nature wants humankind to be free of distress. It's just so!
Humankind and Spiritual love, compassion and spiritual power are most definitely some of those elements belonging to a variety of methods that facilitate/transform/transcend our processing of the feelings (the pain) reflective of our emotions that culminate in love, harmony, joy, grace, forgiveness, releasing resentments, peace, contentment, good will, charity, and freedom.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my two books (purchase a bunch of them and please give them to many deserving people), "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Check out my other website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com and buy some medical coverage. You can apply right on-line. Life's Breath Publication and Ministries is certainly open to donations (contact info on my website). I appreciate your charity support so I can continue posting to my blog, "I Dare to Heal".
Best
Joel V. BA, Education (California Credential), BBA, Business Education,
M.A., Psychology of Human Behavior
Friday, August 20, 2010
Unfulfilled Needs Continued!
Unfulfilled Needs Continued!
Please refer to my post about "unfulfilled frozen chronic needs". Well, there are three remaining unfulfilled needs that create pain for humankind. They are the unfulfilled chronic past, unfulfilled past, and present unfulfilled needs.
I break unfulfilled needs down into for distinct and very different entities. For the most part, we don't even take notice of any difference at all between the differences of unfulfilled needs. We don't even as a matter of fact think about the differiences. However, they are all very, very, different.
Most counselors, therapists, psychiatrists don't even consider the unique differences in the four categories of unfulfilled needs. I have, I've worked extensively with them and experienced all four. My research for the most part has been both non-verbal (different patterns of circular healing breathwork) and verbal in peer counseling sessions over the past 43 years.
The circular healing breathwork facilitates connection with different depths, degrees, dimensions, and facets of feelings reflective of emotions. The circular healing breathwork facilitates "access", a going-into, a connection with, a release, relinquishment, a letting go, and trasmitting the feelings reflective of the "pain" reflective of unfulfilled past and present needs out of the body by way of the manifestations of emotional release. In this way, I've been able to experience the unique differences of the four unfulfilled past and present needs.
When a senior experiences loneliness because of living alone; they may also experience a unfulfilled present need for attachment. The attachment to others is just not there. The pain of present unfulfilled need gradually accumulates and the senior becomes disconnected to parts of themselves. Sadness and depression develop and unfortuantely "suicide" is all to common among seniors. The "pain" of the present unfulfilled need reflective of the issue of loneliness causes "disconnect" to self. The senior experiences isolation. This situation may be true of anyone who experiences lonliness at any age.
I will explain unfulfilled past chronic needs and unfulfilled past needs in later posts.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com. Please purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependence issues or I'm certainly open to donations to keep on posting this information. Please make your checks payable to Life's Breath Publications and Ministries. My contact information is on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin. M.A., Psychology of Human Behavior
Please refer to my post about "unfulfilled frozen chronic needs". Well, there are three remaining unfulfilled needs that create pain for humankind. They are the unfulfilled chronic past, unfulfilled past, and present unfulfilled needs.
I break unfulfilled needs down into for distinct and very different entities. For the most part, we don't even take notice of any difference at all between the differences of unfulfilled needs. We don't even as a matter of fact think about the differiences. However, they are all very, very, different.
Most counselors, therapists, psychiatrists don't even consider the unique differences in the four categories of unfulfilled needs. I have, I've worked extensively with them and experienced all four. My research for the most part has been both non-verbal (different patterns of circular healing breathwork) and verbal in peer counseling sessions over the past 43 years.
The circular healing breathwork facilitates connection with different depths, degrees, dimensions, and facets of feelings reflective of emotions. The circular healing breathwork facilitates "access", a going-into, a connection with, a release, relinquishment, a letting go, and trasmitting the feelings reflective of the "pain" reflective of unfulfilled past and present needs out of the body by way of the manifestations of emotional release. In this way, I've been able to experience the unique differences of the four unfulfilled past and present needs.
When a senior experiences loneliness because of living alone; they may also experience a unfulfilled present need for attachment. The attachment to others is just not there. The pain of present unfulfilled need gradually accumulates and the senior becomes disconnected to parts of themselves. Sadness and depression develop and unfortuantely "suicide" is all to common among seniors. The "pain" of the present unfulfilled need reflective of the issue of loneliness causes "disconnect" to self. The senior experiences isolation. This situation may be true of anyone who experiences lonliness at any age.
I will explain unfulfilled past chronic needs and unfulfilled past needs in later posts.
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Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin. M.A., Psychology of Human Behavior
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