Touching "Your" Spiritual Essence
The hip pain got bad this morning and once again I used "Animated Laughter with Feelings" as a resource to release the pain from my body. However, the experience was some what different this time around. I actually felt the essence of my spirit saying to me that it had enough of the pain and just wanted "out". My spirit just wanted to "leave" my body and no longer experience the physical pain. I just don't think I ever had an experience before where my spiritual essence just no longer wanted any more physical pain and it clearly repeatly asked to be released from my body. Well, my spiritual essence is just going to have to be patient until I get to the surgeon so he can replace the hip joint! I just don't think there are other "bodies" that have the availability just now? If one is going to have to experience a painful joint then "Animated Laughter with Feelings" is a great way to connect with the energy and let it go! "Animated Laaughter with Feelings" is a sophisticated process that combines bio-energetics, primal sound, slap stick mannerisms, circular connected breath practice move through the body armor (the defences) to effectively/efficiently address, "access", connect with, go-into the dimensions of feelings reflective of the emotions, and release, relinquish, let go of those energies.
I have bone spurs as well which are very painful. Apple Cider Vinegar is a great alkaline to sooth the bone spurs. I suggest it's use.
P.S. What are RSS feeds?
Best
Joel V.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Finding Your Purity of Your Creative Nature
Finding Your Purity of Your Creative Nature
There are many ways to develop and expand your creative nature. We can achieve this expansion, amplify, and develop it through the arts. For example, we can simply write. When we write it's best to experience what we write. When we experience what we write it's important for us to process effectively, efficiently, and in a discipline way our feelings reflective of our emotions. When we process our feelings reflective of our emotions we process out the irrational fears, angers, and sadnesses. In doing so, we can write and create with clarity. Whatever our experience may have been that we write about; it's important for us to find the purity in our words and communicate them in a clear and lucid manner.
Whatever "instrument" we use to facilitate our creativity, music, painting, sculpturing, creative writing, medical science, or mathematics, filtering out the irrational emotions and unfulfilled needs reflective of neediness fosters clarity in creativity.
There is truly another kind of creativity that we can manifest. It's the creativity of symbolism and confusion. It's this so-called creativity that is unfiltered of our fears, sadnesses, and angers. It in fact has it's own purity of irrationality. It's a simple choice because both kinds of creativity and their nuances have in fact significance of expression.
Please purchase my two books located on the side bar, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependence issues in the month of January. Please phone me. My contact information is located on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psychology, Human Behavior.
There are many ways to develop and expand your creative nature. We can achieve this expansion, amplify, and develop it through the arts. For example, we can simply write. When we write it's best to experience what we write. When we experience what we write it's important for us to process effectively, efficiently, and in a discipline way our feelings reflective of our emotions. When we process our feelings reflective of our emotions we process out the irrational fears, angers, and sadnesses. In doing so, we can write and create with clarity. Whatever our experience may have been that we write about; it's important for us to find the purity in our words and communicate them in a clear and lucid manner.
Whatever "instrument" we use to facilitate our creativity, music, painting, sculpturing, creative writing, medical science, or mathematics, filtering out the irrational emotions and unfulfilled needs reflective of neediness fosters clarity in creativity.
There is truly another kind of creativity that we can manifest. It's the creativity of symbolism and confusion. It's this so-called creativity that is unfiltered of our fears, sadnesses, and angers. It in fact has it's own purity of irrationality. It's a simple choice because both kinds of creativity and their nuances have in fact significance of expression.
Please purchase my two books located on the side bar, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependence issues in the month of January. Please phone me. My contact information is located on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psychology, Human Behavior.
Creativity
Creativity
I write about the ten components of the self, mental, emotional, physical, creative, social, heart, soul, intuitive, spirit, and the spiritual. The creative component of the self is often undeveloped by most people. However, it is the spice of everyones' life. It's the creative where the imagination expands and thrives. Our flexible intelligence is essential to expanding our imagination and expanding therefore our creative faculty.
Once we trigger our creativity through emotional stimulation an energy is created that expands and amplyfies its growth. The emotional is the fluid that oils the creative expansion of the self. The emotional personal growth is the cornerstone of creative expansion. When we feel good, when we feel "alive", when we feel happy and joyful our creative faculty thrives like a sunflower opening to the sun in the sky. When our creativity flourishes, emotionally we experience a joyful high.
When you release, let go of, relinquish, and trasmit energies within yourself, a stimulation of the hormones, a stimulation of the emotional component results and your creative juices begin to flow!
Please consider the next time you are creating something in your life. It could be just giving birth to a baby. Tell me how does it feel? Please put aside the pain for a moment. Please consider the next time you are writing a story and all the parts just seem to fall into place. How does it feel? Please consider when you do your passion and creativity flourishes. It's a creative high! It's a natural creative high!
Please check out my website at www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'll be available for counseling other on their co-dependent issues in two weeks. Please check out the video "Animated Laughter with Feelings" and allow and permit yourself to join the group and make all the noise you need to.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
I write about the ten components of the self, mental, emotional, physical, creative, social, heart, soul, intuitive, spirit, and the spiritual. The creative component of the self is often undeveloped by most people. However, it is the spice of everyones' life. It's the creative where the imagination expands and thrives. Our flexible intelligence is essential to expanding our imagination and expanding therefore our creative faculty.
Once we trigger our creativity through emotional stimulation an energy is created that expands and amplyfies its growth. The emotional is the fluid that oils the creative expansion of the self. The emotional personal growth is the cornerstone of creative expansion. When we feel good, when we feel "alive", when we feel happy and joyful our creative faculty thrives like a sunflower opening to the sun in the sky. When our creativity flourishes, emotionally we experience a joyful high.
When you release, let go of, relinquish, and trasmit energies within yourself, a stimulation of the hormones, a stimulation of the emotional component results and your creative juices begin to flow!
Please consider the next time you are creating something in your life. It could be just giving birth to a baby. Tell me how does it feel? Please put aside the pain for a moment. Please consider the next time you are writing a story and all the parts just seem to fall into place. How does it feel? Please consider when you do your passion and creativity flourishes. It's a creative high! It's a natural creative high!
Please check out my website at www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'll be available for counseling other on their co-dependent issues in two weeks. Please check out the video "Animated Laughter with Feelings" and allow and permit yourself to join the group and make all the noise you need to.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
It's Healthy to..............................
It's Healthy to.................
It's healthy to process your feelings reflective of your emotions reflective of your issues. Just think, if and when both individuals in a relationship process their feelings reflective of their own issues and consistently make a commitment to be loving and supportive of each other; in doing so, just think how wonderful a relationship can be. If and when you succeed at supporting each other in an alert, aware, loving, compassionate way (in touch, in eye contact, in body language, in words, in acceptance) then your intimate relationship can only deepen and expand.
I truly wish it upon all. Just think, true intimacy based upon sharing your most intimate of feelings reflective of you emotions with each other. Can a loving relationship get any better? I wonder just how many individuals have succeeded at a relationship of this kind? A relationship where processing "vulnerabilities" become a foundation for personal and spiritual growth!
There are those who frown upon introspection. Well, just perhaps a truly loving relationship is based on authentic introspection in a supportive loving way with each other. It's better than suppressing feelings with chocolate. Though, some if not many will prefer the chocolate? How about having both the introspection, and the chocolate!
If and when you happen to have just such a relationship then I think you are very, very fortunate. Both partners must have the will, willing, and willingness to make the commitment, acquire the methods, and follow through on the processing of the their feelings reflective of their emotions, reflective of their issues. It takes courage, faith, and acquiring methods by both partners to succeed in this spiritually highest of relationships.
I'm still seeking a partner who has the will, is willing, and has the willingness to effective/efficiently with discipline to address their underlying fear! Are you out there? If so, please contact me.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, purchase the books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'll be available in January for presentations for fees, and expenses, as well as counseling others on their co-dependencies.
Best
Joel V. BA., Education BBA., Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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It's healthy to process your feelings reflective of your emotions reflective of your issues. Just think, if and when both individuals in a relationship process their feelings reflective of their own issues and consistently make a commitment to be loving and supportive of each other; in doing so, just think how wonderful a relationship can be. If and when you succeed at supporting each other in an alert, aware, loving, compassionate way (in touch, in eye contact, in body language, in words, in acceptance) then your intimate relationship can only deepen and expand.
I truly wish it upon all. Just think, true intimacy based upon sharing your most intimate of feelings reflective of you emotions with each other. Can a loving relationship get any better? I wonder just how many individuals have succeeded at a relationship of this kind? A relationship where processing "vulnerabilities" become a foundation for personal and spiritual growth!
There are those who frown upon introspection. Well, just perhaps a truly loving relationship is based on authentic introspection in a supportive loving way with each other. It's better than suppressing feelings with chocolate. Though, some if not many will prefer the chocolate? How about having both the introspection, and the chocolate!
If and when you happen to have just such a relationship then I think you are very, very fortunate. Both partners must have the will, willing, and willingness to make the commitment, acquire the methods, and follow through on the processing of the their feelings reflective of their emotions, reflective of their issues. It takes courage, faith, and acquiring methods by both partners to succeed in this spiritually highest of relationships.
I'm still seeking a partner who has the will, is willing, and has the willingness to effective/efficiently with discipline to address their underlying fear! Are you out there? If so, please contact me.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, purchase the books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'll be available in January for presentations for fees, and expenses, as well as counseling others on their co-dependencies.
Best
Joel V. BA., Education BBA., Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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Friday, December 24, 2010
Are "You" Entirely Ready?
Are "You" Entirely Ready......
Are "you" entirely ready to turn your will over to a higher power. This phrase is a twelve step concept. This theme is one of the major themes in Co-dependency. It requires a committment to be entirely ready to turn your will over to a higher power.
If and when you aim to connect with a spiritual entity and resolve your issues then it's incumbent upon an individual to make a committment to be a being who is entirely ready to turn stubbornness of "will" over to a higher power.
I achieved this by surrendering my resistence to let go, release, relinquish, transmit, and discharge my feelings reflective of my accumulated emotional pain. If I need to; I will do it almost everyday. The powerful terrifying feelings I experience that are triggered by everyday stress facilitates my being, being entirely ready to surrender my fears. In doing so, my spiritual aim, my connection with my spiritual higher power is achieved.
Therefore, I've come to believe in life, in living, in prospering. Gradually, I've come to believe my economic insecurity will "in fact" will slip away. More importantly, I've come to believe in how the universe works in healthy ways to facilitate my well being. I have gradually come to trust and have faith.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power".
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Are "you" entirely ready to turn your will over to a higher power. This phrase is a twelve step concept. This theme is one of the major themes in Co-dependency. It requires a committment to be entirely ready to turn your will over to a higher power.
If and when you aim to connect with a spiritual entity and resolve your issues then it's incumbent upon an individual to make a committment to be a being who is entirely ready to turn stubbornness of "will" over to a higher power.
I achieved this by surrendering my resistence to let go, release, relinquish, transmit, and discharge my feelings reflective of my accumulated emotional pain. If I need to; I will do it almost everyday. The powerful terrifying feelings I experience that are triggered by everyday stress facilitates my being, being entirely ready to surrender my fears. In doing so, my spiritual aim, my connection with my spiritual higher power is achieved.
Therefore, I've come to believe in life, in living, in prospering. Gradually, I've come to believe my economic insecurity will "in fact" will slip away. More importantly, I've come to believe in how the universe works in healthy ways to facilitate my well being. I have gradually come to trust and have faith.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power".
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
A Thousand Breaths to End Child Sex Exploitation
A Thousand Breaths
There will be a benefit concert to "End Child Sex Exploitation" at the Scotish Rite Temple in Mission Valley San Diego, California 92108 on December 31st from 11:00am until 1:00p.m. at 1895 Camino Del Rio South. There is a $10.00 donation requested. One must register before hand for the event at
CONTACT
♦ Registration and Details at: http://life-enlightenment.com/events.html
♦ E-mail – 1000Breaths@Gmail.com
♦ Phone – Legacy Productions’ Jim Ellis at (858) 518-5826
There will be a "breathwork"session held at the event. "Breathwork" is a process where the participant learns the circular connected healing breath that accesses unwanted dissonant energies and upon the exhale releases them. I write about "Breathwork" in my books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please click on the books and check out what has been commented about them.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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There will be a benefit concert to "End Child Sex Exploitation" at the Scotish Rite Temple in Mission Valley San Diego, California 92108 on December 31st from 11:00am until 1:00p.m. at 1895 Camino Del Rio South. There is a $10.00 donation requested. One must register before hand for the event at
CONTACT
♦ Registration and Details at: http://life-enlightenment.com/events.html
♦ E-mail – 1000Breaths@Gmail.com
♦ Phone – Legacy Productions’ Jim Ellis at (858) 518-5826
There will be a "breathwork"session held at the event. "Breathwork" is a process where the participant learns the circular connected healing breath that accesses unwanted dissonant energies and upon the exhale releases them. I write about "Breathwork" in my books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please click on the books and check out what has been commented about them.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
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Monday, December 20, 2010
A New Strength
A New Strength
"Once long, long ago, I had some problems but now I'm all strength"
The affirmation is empowering to "take" a firm grip, anchoring, and grounding of the "self" in present time realty. It's learning a "new present time strength". It's a strength based both on emotional empowerment and connection with a higher power that reinforces a "new strength".
Often, we are in the grip of daily chaos,and our attention is removed from what is real, what is now, what is connected to the very core of the ourselves. It's in finding ways to renew ourselves in a connection with a new strength where we can know personal growth, hope, and faith.
It's in doing our daily prayer, daily meditation, that we can accomplish and achieve a personal best. It's important for us to stay conscious, very conscious of our imperfections and maintain a knowing compassion for ourselves as it reflects our imprinted, ingrained, deeply rooted, compulsively irritating, genetically coded anxieties that permeate our minds. How truly uplifing it is for all of us to experience in every cell of our body the chemical reaction of cellular compassion. How wonderful it would be if and when our nervous system "naturally" synchronizes cellular compassion with our human defects. Perhaps if and when we all strive to experience in mind, in body, in soul, in spirit, and above all in connection with "the spirit" that all humankind will successfully achieve a goal of self harmony. Perhaps, when this comes to pass; all will know true peace on earth. All humankind will learn to "think well of themselves" regardless of their individual defects of character. Just perhaps, if this comes to pass then individual and humankind defects of character will completely dissipate? My viewpoint most certainly is, is idealistic. So what!
Please take a brief moment and check out my books in the side panel. Purchase lots and lots of them for family, friends, acquaintances, community spiritual and secular. I'm available for counseling others here in San Diego in the month of January.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgy of Human Behavior.
"Once long, long ago, I had some problems but now I'm all strength"
The affirmation is empowering to "take" a firm grip, anchoring, and grounding of the "self" in present time realty. It's learning a "new present time strength". It's a strength based both on emotional empowerment and connection with a higher power that reinforces a "new strength".
Often, we are in the grip of daily chaos,and our attention is removed from what is real, what is now, what is connected to the very core of the ourselves. It's in finding ways to renew ourselves in a connection with a new strength where we can know personal growth, hope, and faith.
It's in doing our daily prayer, daily meditation, that we can accomplish and achieve a personal best. It's important for us to stay conscious, very conscious of our imperfections and maintain a knowing compassion for ourselves as it reflects our imprinted, ingrained, deeply rooted, compulsively irritating, genetically coded anxieties that permeate our minds. How truly uplifing it is for all of us to experience in every cell of our body the chemical reaction of cellular compassion. How wonderful it would be if and when our nervous system "naturally" synchronizes cellular compassion with our human defects. Perhaps if and when we all strive to experience in mind, in body, in soul, in spirit, and above all in connection with "the spirit" that all humankind will successfully achieve a goal of self harmony. Perhaps, when this comes to pass; all will know true peace on earth. All humankind will learn to "think well of themselves" regardless of their individual defects of character. Just perhaps, if this comes to pass then individual and humankind defects of character will completely dissipate? My viewpoint most certainly is, is idealistic. So what!
Please take a brief moment and check out my books in the side panel. Purchase lots and lots of them for family, friends, acquaintances, community spiritual and secular. I'm available for counseling others here in San Diego in the month of January.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgy of Human Behavior.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Santa Lucia
Santa Lucia
December 13th begins the Christmas season in Scandinavia with the holiday of Santa Lucia. The Holiday is celebrated in Italy and France as well. I don't think many people are aware of the holiday throughout the world. It's speical because of the spirituality of the event.
There are several young women who participate dressed in white gowns carrying candles as they parade in singing "Santa Lucia". The lead female has a crown of lights upon her head. The lights in the location are darkened and the candlelight held by the young women remind the observers of the "light" that permeates the darkness.
The spirituality of the event reflective of how "light" permeates the darkness is reflective of how "enlightenment" can permeate our struggles, our issues, our humanistic challenges that humankind encounters on a daily basis. The "light" that the young women carry symbolizes "hope", "faith", "peace" and "community".
Please check out my books on the side bar and read the comments on my website www.idaretoheal.com. I'm available for counseling others on co-dependency issues of control, compliance, denial, and self-esteem issues.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgy of Human Behavior.
December 13th begins the Christmas season in Scandinavia with the holiday of Santa Lucia. The Holiday is celebrated in Italy and France as well. I don't think many people are aware of the holiday throughout the world. It's speical because of the spirituality of the event.
There are several young women who participate dressed in white gowns carrying candles as they parade in singing "Santa Lucia". The lead female has a crown of lights upon her head. The lights in the location are darkened and the candlelight held by the young women remind the observers of the "light" that permeates the darkness.
The spirituality of the event reflective of how "light" permeates the darkness is reflective of how "enlightenment" can permeate our struggles, our issues, our humanistic challenges that humankind encounters on a daily basis. The "light" that the young women carry symbolizes "hope", "faith", "peace" and "community".
Please check out my books on the side bar and read the comments on my website www.idaretoheal.com. I'm available for counseling others on co-dependency issues of control, compliance, denial, and self-esteem issues.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgy of Human Behavior.
The Spiritual Beauty, Power, Empowerment of Silence
The Spiritual Power, Empowermnent of Silence
Often, there are so many, many thoughts that go through our heads. The mind is so restless. The mind is so filled with concerns, issues economic, relationships, practical, and emotional. It's seldom that we find ourselves in silence. The distractions of life are numerous. The environment holds a great deal of noise as well. If we could only experience true silence. What may occur?
When we dare to focus our minds and experience true silence emotional fear may arise. It's often the reason we occupy ourselves with distractions. Just think if we could let go of our "fear", our concerns, and our thoughts. We just might connect with true silence.
We are fortunate in San Diego County because of the ocean, the mountains, and the desert. The beauty of the environment surrounds us. The beauty is overpowering and it gives us the opportunity to walk in and through these environments and experience their beauty. It also gives us the opportunity to experience the solitude and the spiritual beauty, power, and empowerment of silence.
If and when fears do bubble up; when we can succeed at the release of our fears; when we can let go enough of our fears; what remains just might be the profound sense of our connection with true silence. I've experienced true silence and can honestly tell you that it's an opportunity to connect and make a loving connection with spirit.
The use of silence in relationships can be extremely powerful. Often, we attempt to fix others issues. Fixing issues of others is co-dependency. When we keep silent and permit and allow others to find the answers; it can be for the best. It's important to know when to keep silent and when to counsel and advise others. It's important to know when to set boundaries with and without the use of silence. We can learn to set boundaries by way of relationship experiences.
Please check out my books on the side panel and purchase a bunch of them. Just click on "click here". They can also be ordered at Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Often, there are so many, many thoughts that go through our heads. The mind is so restless. The mind is so filled with concerns, issues economic, relationships, practical, and emotional. It's seldom that we find ourselves in silence. The distractions of life are numerous. The environment holds a great deal of noise as well. If we could only experience true silence. What may occur?
When we dare to focus our minds and experience true silence emotional fear may arise. It's often the reason we occupy ourselves with distractions. Just think if we could let go of our "fear", our concerns, and our thoughts. We just might connect with true silence.
We are fortunate in San Diego County because of the ocean, the mountains, and the desert. The beauty of the environment surrounds us. The beauty is overpowering and it gives us the opportunity to walk in and through these environments and experience their beauty. It also gives us the opportunity to experience the solitude and the spiritual beauty, power, and empowerment of silence.
If and when fears do bubble up; when we can succeed at the release of our fears; when we can let go enough of our fears; what remains just might be the profound sense of our connection with true silence. I've experienced true silence and can honestly tell you that it's an opportunity to connect and make a loving connection with spirit.
The use of silence in relationships can be extremely powerful. Often, we attempt to fix others issues. Fixing issues of others is co-dependency. When we keep silent and permit and allow others to find the answers; it can be for the best. It's important to know when to keep silent and when to counsel and advise others. It's important to know when to set boundaries with and without the use of silence. We can learn to set boundaries by way of relationship experiences.
Please check out my books on the side panel and purchase a bunch of them. Just click on "click here". They can also be ordered at Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Saturday, December 18, 2010
A LETTER TO PETRA
A Letter to Petra
THERE ARE SO MANY YOUNG PEOPLE WHO ARE SEEKING A SENSE OF THEMSELVES IN THE WIDE WORLD. THEY ARE SEARCHING AND SEEKING THEMSELVES. THEY ARE SEEKING A MENTOR IN THE WIDE WORLD. THERE ARE MANY WHO ARE JUST LOST SEEKING SOME GROUNDING, SOME ANCHORING IN THEMSELVES. THEY JUST DON'T KNOW WHICH WAY TO TURN. THEY DON'T KNOW WHO TO TURN TO. THEY ARE SEEKING ANSWERS TO MANY QUESTIONS. MANY ARE SEEKING MODELS TO WHOM THEY CAN DEPEND UPON FOR ANSWERS.
THE QUESTIONS
THERE IS THE QUESTION OF WHO AM I?, WHAT DO I WANT? WHO CAN I TRUST TO GIVE ME ANWERS TO SPIRITUALITY, TO THE MEANING OF LIFE, TO RELATIONSHIPS IN THE WIDE WORLD, TO MY HURTS, AND MY TRAUMAS?
THE ANSWERS
We can determine the answers to these questions through personal growth methods and the healing of our emotional/physical hurts and traumas. It is through these activities and others that we experience maturity and a deeper understanding of ourselves. We expand and deepen our integration of the self. When we address and heal our emotional/physical hurts and traumas there are three main categories or methods.
THE THREE MAIN CATEGORIES OF ADDRESSING ISSUES
THE FIRST CATEGORY IS THE ONE OF JUST RELAXATION. THE ANSWER HERE IS USING NATURE. A VISIT TO THE MOUNTAINS, OCEAN, DESERT, A WALK BY THE RIVER OR IN THE WOODS. JACUZZI, VISITING WITH FRIENDS AND CONFIDING WITH THEM ABOUT ISSUES. RELAXING LISTENING TO MUSIC. WATCHING A FILM THAT RESONATES WITH ONESELF. DANCING IS ALSO INCLUDED IN THIS GROUP.
THE SECOND GROUP OF METHODS INVOLVES MORE OF THE CONGITIVE, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL ASPECTS OF OURSELVES
THE SECOND CATEGORY OF ADDRESSING our STRESses AND DISTRESSes as it relates to our ISSUES INCLUDE SEEKING COUNSELING, MEDITATION, DIFFERENT METHODS OF YOGA, SHIATSU (JAPANESE FINGER PRESSURE), REFLEXOLOGY, DIFFERENT TYPES OF MASSAGE THAT INVOLVES DEEP TISSUE, THERAPY WITH A PRACTITIONER, ACUPUNCTURE, TAI CHI CHUAN, TAE KWON DO, BIOENRGETIC EXERCISES, TWELVE STEP PROGRAMS, SPIRITUAL SINGING, NON-NATIVE CEREMONIAL SWEAT LODGE, JOURNALING, AND PRAYER.
THE THIRD CATEGORY OF PERSONAL GROWTH METHODS HELPS TO ADDRESS DEEPER EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL HURTS/TRAUMAS. IT IS THIS GROUP WHERE WE LEARN TO BECOME COMFORTABLE WITH ALL THE MANIFESTATIONS OF EMOTIONAL RELEASE. THIS INCLUDES YAWNING, ANIMATED LAUGHTER, HOT/COLD SWEATS, CHATTERING, STORMING (ANGER RELEASE), TEARING, SOBBING, SHAKING, VERBALIZING FEELINGS CONNECTED TO OUR THOUHTS, AND SCRATCHING (THE PAIN IS UNDER MY SKIN).
THIS GROUP INCLUDE THE CIRCULAR HEALING CONNECTED BREATH, PRIMAL SOUND, PEER COUNSELING, KUNDALINI YOGA, AND ANIMATED LAUGHTER WORKSHOPS. The secret is to do enough release of our feelings reflective of our emotions. It is only then that we make the spiritual connections, the emotional growth and experience the maturity as well.
WE BEGIN TO FIND OUR ANSWERS AS WE EXPERIENCE THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS OF OUR DAILY LIVES AND WHEN WE BEGIN TO DO THE NECESSARY INNER WORK. WE THEN CAN BECOME CLEAR AS TO OUR LIVES PATH!
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, and purchase my books in the side bar. The books include many methods to practice and process feelings reflective of emotional, and practical issues.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psycholgy Human Behavior.
THERE ARE SO MANY YOUNG PEOPLE WHO ARE SEEKING A SENSE OF THEMSELVES IN THE WIDE WORLD. THEY ARE SEARCHING AND SEEKING THEMSELVES. THEY ARE SEEKING A MENTOR IN THE WIDE WORLD. THERE ARE MANY WHO ARE JUST LOST SEEKING SOME GROUNDING, SOME ANCHORING IN THEMSELVES. THEY JUST DON'T KNOW WHICH WAY TO TURN. THEY DON'T KNOW WHO TO TURN TO. THEY ARE SEEKING ANSWERS TO MANY QUESTIONS. MANY ARE SEEKING MODELS TO WHOM THEY CAN DEPEND UPON FOR ANSWERS.
THE QUESTIONS
THERE IS THE QUESTION OF WHO AM I?, WHAT DO I WANT? WHO CAN I TRUST TO GIVE ME ANWERS TO SPIRITUALITY, TO THE MEANING OF LIFE, TO RELATIONSHIPS IN THE WIDE WORLD, TO MY HURTS, AND MY TRAUMAS?
THE ANSWERS
We can determine the answers to these questions through personal growth methods and the healing of our emotional/physical hurts and traumas. It is through these activities and others that we experience maturity and a deeper understanding of ourselves. We expand and deepen our integration of the self. When we address and heal our emotional/physical hurts and traumas there are three main categories or methods.
THE THREE MAIN CATEGORIES OF ADDRESSING ISSUES
THE FIRST CATEGORY IS THE ONE OF JUST RELAXATION. THE ANSWER HERE IS USING NATURE. A VISIT TO THE MOUNTAINS, OCEAN, DESERT, A WALK BY THE RIVER OR IN THE WOODS. JACUZZI, VISITING WITH FRIENDS AND CONFIDING WITH THEM ABOUT ISSUES. RELAXING LISTENING TO MUSIC. WATCHING A FILM THAT RESONATES WITH ONESELF. DANCING IS ALSO INCLUDED IN THIS GROUP.
THE SECOND GROUP OF METHODS INVOLVES MORE OF THE CONGITIVE, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL ASPECTS OF OURSELVES
THE SECOND CATEGORY OF ADDRESSING our STRESses AND DISTRESSes as it relates to our ISSUES INCLUDE SEEKING COUNSELING, MEDITATION, DIFFERENT METHODS OF YOGA, SHIATSU (JAPANESE FINGER PRESSURE), REFLEXOLOGY, DIFFERENT TYPES OF MASSAGE THAT INVOLVES DEEP TISSUE, THERAPY WITH A PRACTITIONER, ACUPUNCTURE, TAI CHI CHUAN, TAE KWON DO, BIOENRGETIC EXERCISES, TWELVE STEP PROGRAMS, SPIRITUAL SINGING, NON-NATIVE CEREMONIAL SWEAT LODGE, JOURNALING, AND PRAYER.
THE THIRD CATEGORY OF PERSONAL GROWTH METHODS HELPS TO ADDRESS DEEPER EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL HURTS/TRAUMAS. IT IS THIS GROUP WHERE WE LEARN TO BECOME COMFORTABLE WITH ALL THE MANIFESTATIONS OF EMOTIONAL RELEASE. THIS INCLUDES YAWNING, ANIMATED LAUGHTER, HOT/COLD SWEATS, CHATTERING, STORMING (ANGER RELEASE), TEARING, SOBBING, SHAKING, VERBALIZING FEELINGS CONNECTED TO OUR THOUHTS, AND SCRATCHING (THE PAIN IS UNDER MY SKIN).
THIS GROUP INCLUDE THE CIRCULAR HEALING CONNECTED BREATH, PRIMAL SOUND, PEER COUNSELING, KUNDALINI YOGA, AND ANIMATED LAUGHTER WORKSHOPS. The secret is to do enough release of our feelings reflective of our emotions. It is only then that we make the spiritual connections, the emotional growth and experience the maturity as well.
WE BEGIN TO FIND OUR ANSWERS AS WE EXPERIENCE THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS OF OUR DAILY LIVES AND WHEN WE BEGIN TO DO THE NECESSARY INNER WORK. WE THEN CAN BECOME CLEAR AS TO OUR LIVES PATH!
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, and purchase my books in the side bar. The books include many methods to practice and process feelings reflective of emotional, and practical issues.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psycholgy Human Behavior.
AWARENESS
Awareness
When a person becomes aware of their issues; it is then time to begin the stage of processing them. Some of us choose just not to touch the "feelings" reflective of the issues. Well, it's most certainly not enough to just become aware of the issues without taking the steps to learn methods so that one can "process" the feelings reflective of the emotions.
The "work" truly begins if and when one makes the choice to process the feelings reflective of the issues. It's true that becoming aware of the issues may very well be helpful but "nature" of taking steps to become a "whole" human being begins when a choice is made to practice methods that resonate with you to process effectively, efficiently, with discipline the feelings reflective of the emotions.
"Animated Laughter with Feelings", other manifestations of emotional release, and other methods are some of the choices. The "Letter to Petra" that follows this post will list the three main categories of processes.
True, it's not a simple task to process feelings reflective of emotions. However, "nature" calls from within and from without to nurture ourselves. Sometimes the calling it very, very, strong. We might as well have lots of fun doing it. It's a reason why I developed "Animated Laughter with Feelings". I'm doing a class at the First Spiritualist Church in San Diego the first week of March. Please goggle the church and join in the fun.
Please purchase my books located in the side bar and acquaint yourself with the methods in the books. The books are available at my website, www.idaretoheal.com or through Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psychology Human Behavior.
When a person becomes aware of their issues; it is then time to begin the stage of processing them. Some of us choose just not to touch the "feelings" reflective of the issues. Well, it's most certainly not enough to just become aware of the issues without taking the steps to learn methods so that one can "process" the feelings reflective of the emotions.
The "work" truly begins if and when one makes the choice to process the feelings reflective of the issues. It's true that becoming aware of the issues may very well be helpful but "nature" of taking steps to become a "whole" human being begins when a choice is made to practice methods that resonate with you to process effectively, efficiently, with discipline the feelings reflective of the emotions.
"Animated Laughter with Feelings", other manifestations of emotional release, and other methods are some of the choices. The "Letter to Petra" that follows this post will list the three main categories of processes.
True, it's not a simple task to process feelings reflective of emotions. However, "nature" calls from within and from without to nurture ourselves. Sometimes the calling it very, very, strong. We might as well have lots of fun doing it. It's a reason why I developed "Animated Laughter with Feelings". I'm doing a class at the First Spiritualist Church in San Diego the first week of March. Please goggle the church and join in the fun.
Please purchase my books located in the side bar and acquaint yourself with the methods in the books. The books are available at my website, www.idaretoheal.com or through Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psychology Human Behavior.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Loving Relationships - Two -
Loving Relationships - Two
The "fear" "control", "compliance", "denial" "low self-esteem" belief, value, trait or manipulations/patterns of one or the other partner seemingly will in some way get in the way of a relationship developing or the relationship itself.
Most people will choose "not to go there". When you choose "not to go there", it just may be denial. Actually, If and when both partners have access to, and are comfortable with multiple developmental methods (A Letter to Petra), it's then that a loving relatioship is possible and probably.
The "stuck" ingrained, embedded, hard wired, deeply rooted, frozen chronic, emotions are in all ways the culprits. Some call them "the devil". Actually, they are profound intense feelings reflective of emotions. The emotions are "deep seated" and usually reflect trauma.
The biological needs also play a significant role in maintaining a loving relationship. One partner may not want a child while the other must have one.
Communication and agreement between the partners "should" take place before the issues manifest themselves into reality.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I counsel clients on co-dependency issues as well! I'm available to speak for fees and expenses. Please check out my website (in California) for those of you who need medical coverage at www.healthplansinsandiego.com. I passed once again my certification exam for MediCare and offer medicare plans, (supplements and advantage plans) indiviudal medical under 65, small/large medical plans for groups and prescription medication plans.
Best
Joel V. BA., Education, BBA, Business Marketing., M.A Master's Psychology of Human Behavior.
The "fear" "control", "compliance", "denial" "low self-esteem" belief, value, trait or manipulations/patterns of one or the other partner seemingly will in some way get in the way of a relationship developing or the relationship itself.
Most people will choose "not to go there". When you choose "not to go there", it just may be denial. Actually, If and when both partners have access to, and are comfortable with multiple developmental methods (A Letter to Petra), it's then that a loving relatioship is possible and probably.
The "stuck" ingrained, embedded, hard wired, deeply rooted, frozen chronic, emotions are in all ways the culprits. Some call them "the devil". Actually, they are profound intense feelings reflective of emotions. The emotions are "deep seated" and usually reflect trauma.
The biological needs also play a significant role in maintaining a loving relationship. One partner may not want a child while the other must have one.
Communication and agreement between the partners "should" take place before the issues manifest themselves into reality.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I counsel clients on co-dependency issues as well! I'm available to speak for fees and expenses. Please check out my website (in California) for those of you who need medical coverage at www.healthplansinsandiego.com. I passed once again my certification exam for MediCare and offer medicare plans, (supplements and advantage plans) indiviudal medical under 65, small/large medical plans for groups and prescription medication plans.
Best
Joel V. BA., Education, BBA, Business Marketing., M.A Master's Psychology of Human Behavior.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
On Receiving
On Receiving
It's significant to "Receive". If we are a giver in practical and emotional ways and do not receive in practical and emotional ways; we may experience resentment. The resentment becomes a contributing factor in the disease of co-dependence.
If and when we experience a sense of rejection in practical and emotional ways; then we can also experience a sense of betrayal, abandonment, and separation of self and within ourselves. We experience an emotional hurt or even trauma. If we have not received emotionally in our formative years; it can result in insecurity and anxiety when we are in adolescents or in adulthood.
When we practice methods that resonate with ourselves; when we have the willingness (the committment) to apply our methods successfully; we then can learn to set emotional and practical boundaries. We can learn that we are powerless over others behaviors. We can learn that others behaviors have absolutely no power over ourselves.
If we have not received emotionally in our formative years; if we have not learned to set boundaries, it very well may set up a pattern of ingrained co-dependency. In our adolescence and adulthood we may be givers, pleasers, fixers, compliers to others in the hope of receiving what we have not received emotionally when we were younger. As I have written before; we have unfulfilled past frozen chronic, unfulfilled past chronic, unfulfilled past, and present unfulfilled needs. The result is a state of "neediness". When your emotional or practical needs are not being met in the present then that becomes a trigger or triggers of anxiety and depression coming from the past. We can become known as a being who is being "sensitive" in the wide world.
The sensitivity can very well provoke more intensity to our frustrations and we can experience self-defeating behaviors. We can become easily angry and internalize our anger or externalize our anger at others.
The anxiety can result in panic attacks. The anxiety can paralyze us from functioning in a healthy way.
We can experience feelings of the range of emotion from sadness through grief. The result is depression. The result of the anxiety and the depression can be a diagnosis of bi-polar disorder.
There are many resolutions to the issue of co-dependency. We can learn methods to process the ingrained, inprinted, hard wired, genetically coded, and deeply rooted "feelings" reflective of the anxiety and depression. We can gradually free ourselves from the patterns and become free of our co-dependencies.
Our connection with a higher power can support us in our transformation, and transcendence of our pain energy. We make our connection with our higher power as we effectively, efficiently, with discipline practice and process those painful feelings reflective of emotions that lock in our co-dependent patterns that result in our unhealthy behaviors.
I write about the methods of freeing ourselves from our enmeshment with co-dependency patterns in my two books to the right in the side bar, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please take a moment to read more about the books by clicking on "click here". The purchase of the books can be achieved from my website or Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgoy of Human Behavior.
It's significant to "Receive". If we are a giver in practical and emotional ways and do not receive in practical and emotional ways; we may experience resentment. The resentment becomes a contributing factor in the disease of co-dependence.
If and when we experience a sense of rejection in practical and emotional ways; then we can also experience a sense of betrayal, abandonment, and separation of self and within ourselves. We experience an emotional hurt or even trauma. If we have not received emotionally in our formative years; it can result in insecurity and anxiety when we are in adolescents or in adulthood.
When we practice methods that resonate with ourselves; when we have the willingness (the committment) to apply our methods successfully; we then can learn to set emotional and practical boundaries. We can learn that we are powerless over others behaviors. We can learn that others behaviors have absolutely no power over ourselves.
If we have not received emotionally in our formative years; if we have not learned to set boundaries, it very well may set up a pattern of ingrained co-dependency. In our adolescence and adulthood we may be givers, pleasers, fixers, compliers to others in the hope of receiving what we have not received emotionally when we were younger. As I have written before; we have unfulfilled past frozen chronic, unfulfilled past chronic, unfulfilled past, and present unfulfilled needs. The result is a state of "neediness". When your emotional or practical needs are not being met in the present then that becomes a trigger or triggers of anxiety and depression coming from the past. We can become known as a being who is being "sensitive" in the wide world.
The sensitivity can very well provoke more intensity to our frustrations and we can experience self-defeating behaviors. We can become easily angry and internalize our anger or externalize our anger at others.
The anxiety can result in panic attacks. The anxiety can paralyze us from functioning in a healthy way.
We can experience feelings of the range of emotion from sadness through grief. The result is depression. The result of the anxiety and the depression can be a diagnosis of bi-polar disorder.
There are many resolutions to the issue of co-dependency. We can learn methods to process the ingrained, inprinted, hard wired, genetically coded, and deeply rooted "feelings" reflective of the anxiety and depression. We can gradually free ourselves from the patterns and become free of our co-dependencies.
Our connection with a higher power can support us in our transformation, and transcendence of our pain energy. We make our connection with our higher power as we effectively, efficiently, with discipline practice and process those painful feelings reflective of emotions that lock in our co-dependent patterns that result in our unhealthy behaviors.
I write about the methods of freeing ourselves from our enmeshment with co-dependency patterns in my two books to the right in the side bar, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please take a moment to read more about the books by clicking on "click here". The purchase of the books can be achieved from my website or Barnes and Noble Booksellers.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgoy of Human Behavior.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Frustrations
Frustration!
How do you handle and address your "Frustrations"? I'm in sales and my "Frustrations" just get to me. It doesn't pay for me to be in denial of my "Frustrations". They exist and I choose just not deny them. I like processing my "Furstrations" as soon as I experience them. How do I do that? How can one "process" frustrations as soon as one experiences them? I use the the circular breathe and breath into my frustrations and release them by way of the elongated yawn, again, and again, and again.
Just think, if you had that ability to just breath into your frustrations and release, relinquish, let go of, discharge, and dismantle them immediately upon you experiencing them. Wow, the resiliency that occurs with immediate release and relinquishment of frustrations.
There is no absolutely no suppression of the feelings and emotions. There is no opportunity for the feelings to transform into "anger", or major upset. The "feelings" of "Frustrations" are addressed without any hesitation. The return of complete attention, of complete alertness is immediate and once again one is empowered with clear, concrete, and sharpen attention. It's a treasure to experience this natural nature of rebound into "present time". It's a clarity amplified and alertness empowered. It's an essential strength in many types of daily challenges. It's just a great and extraordinary way to reap the benefits of energizing oneself after a dissappointment and facilitating positive energizing emotional empowerment restored again.
I write about the restoration of the self in both books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassioante Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power" in the side bar of this post. Please purchase the books and practice the methods.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgy of Human Behavior.
How do you handle and address your "Frustrations"? I'm in sales and my "Frustrations" just get to me. It doesn't pay for me to be in denial of my "Frustrations". They exist and I choose just not deny them. I like processing my "Furstrations" as soon as I experience them. How do I do that? How can one "process" frustrations as soon as one experiences them? I use the the circular breathe and breath into my frustrations and release them by way of the elongated yawn, again, and again, and again.
Just think, if you had that ability to just breath into your frustrations and release, relinquish, let go of, discharge, and dismantle them immediately upon you experiencing them. Wow, the resiliency that occurs with immediate release and relinquishment of frustrations.
There is no absolutely no suppression of the feelings and emotions. There is no opportunity for the feelings to transform into "anger", or major upset. The "feelings" of "Frustrations" are addressed without any hesitation. The return of complete attention, of complete alertness is immediate and once again one is empowered with clear, concrete, and sharpen attention. It's a treasure to experience this natural nature of rebound into "present time". It's a clarity amplified and alertness empowered. It's an essential strength in many types of daily challenges. It's just a great and extraordinary way to reap the benefits of energizing oneself after a dissappointment and facilitating positive energizing emotional empowerment restored again.
I write about the restoration of the self in both books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassioante Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power" in the side bar of this post. Please purchase the books and practice the methods.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Psycholgy of Human Behavior.
Tai Chi Chih
Tai Chi Chih
Well, I'll try once again to post. I've tried several times by way of my netbook from Barcelona, Spain. I've been unsuccessful in posting. It's this done site. I'm powerless over it and I'm having a co-dependent time of not, not attaching to expectation, outcome, and result. I'll give it yet another go!
I'm in Barcelona, Spain doing the family connection and it's going great! I'm succeeding at reconnecting with family repectfully.
Tai Chi Chih is a wonderful practice that I've been doing since 1990. We gather together on Saturday mornings to practice Tai Chi Chih in the Eucalyptus Grove at Balboa Park San Diego. We've been practicing Tai Chi Chih for about fifteen years in the same location so that it has a very special spiritual quality just at that location. It's truly remarkable. In fact, I've noticed other groups who have begun a practice there but for whatever the reason they just haven't continued.
I practice the Tai Chi Chih with the connected circular breath which is extremely powerfully spiritual and empowering. The yawn with movement is powerfully grounding and anchoring for my self. I use the quick inhale and the slow exhale after connecting with tension in my body. The release, relinquishment, letting go, and transmitting the anxiety out of my body leaves me extremely relaxed.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, purchase books, ""I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling others on co-dependent issues here in San Diego. I'm available to speak about co-dependence for a fee and expenses. Please check out my other website as well, www.healthplansinsandiego.com and purchase either MediCare Plan, Individual Health, Small/Large Group Plans.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
Well, I'll try once again to post. I've tried several times by way of my netbook from Barcelona, Spain. I've been unsuccessful in posting. It's this done site. I'm powerless over it and I'm having a co-dependent time of not, not attaching to expectation, outcome, and result. I'll give it yet another go!
I'm in Barcelona, Spain doing the family connection and it's going great! I'm succeeding at reconnecting with family repectfully.
Tai Chi Chih is a wonderful practice that I've been doing since 1990. We gather together on Saturday mornings to practice Tai Chi Chih in the Eucalyptus Grove at Balboa Park San Diego. We've been practicing Tai Chi Chih for about fifteen years in the same location so that it has a very special spiritual quality just at that location. It's truly remarkable. In fact, I've noticed other groups who have begun a practice there but for whatever the reason they just haven't continued.
I practice the Tai Chi Chih with the connected circular breath which is extremely powerfully spiritual and empowering. The yawn with movement is powerfully grounding and anchoring for my self. I use the quick inhale and the slow exhale after connecting with tension in my body. The release, relinquishment, letting go, and transmitting the anxiety out of my body leaves me extremely relaxed.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com, purchase books, ""I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling others on co-dependent issues here in San Diego. I'm available to speak about co-dependence for a fee and expenses. Please check out my other website as well, www.healthplansinsandiego.com and purchase either MediCare Plan, Individual Health, Small/Large Group Plans.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
Friday, December 10, 2010
Migraine - No More
Migraine - No More
Just think if humankind could finally free itself from Migraine Headaches? Migraine Headaches have tormented humankind for ages. The intense headaches, the sensitivity to lights, the lack of appetite, the sense of nausiousness, the on-going pain. When we learn to use primal sound effectively to address Migraine Headaches; we then have learned to reduce the intense pain and even to resolve the issue.
Primal Sound facilitates access to the profoundest of pain within and helps us to release, relinquish, let go of, discharge, and transmit the energy out of our bodies. The intense power of the sound facilitates healing.
Most of us are reluctant to make noise, to make intense sound because it's culturally not acceptable. Well, what is unacceptable is the agonizing pain that is experienced upon the onset and duration of a migraine headache. When we learn to make effective, efficient, sound with discipline; we learn the it's definitely acceptable even culturally acceptable. We learn to successfully process our pain and learn that it's ok for us to heal and free ourselves from migraine headaches.
PLease purchase my books to the right of this blog in the side bar. The books describe methods that facilitate access, connection with and release of pain associated with migraine headaches. I'll be happy to do a presentation in the month of January. I'm available to counsel clients on co-dependency issues.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Human Beahavior, Psychology
Just think if humankind could finally free itself from Migraine Headaches? Migraine Headaches have tormented humankind for ages. The intense headaches, the sensitivity to lights, the lack of appetite, the sense of nausiousness, the on-going pain. When we learn to use primal sound effectively to address Migraine Headaches; we then have learned to reduce the intense pain and even to resolve the issue.
Primal Sound facilitates access to the profoundest of pain within and helps us to release, relinquish, let go of, discharge, and transmit the energy out of our bodies. The intense power of the sound facilitates healing.
Most of us are reluctant to make noise, to make intense sound because it's culturally not acceptable. Well, what is unacceptable is the agonizing pain that is experienced upon the onset and duration of a migraine headache. When we learn to make effective, efficient, sound with discipline; we learn the it's definitely acceptable even culturally acceptable. We learn to successfully process our pain and learn that it's ok for us to heal and free ourselves from migraine headaches.
PLease purchase my books to the right of this blog in the side bar. The books describe methods that facilitate access, connection with and release of pain associated with migraine headaches. I'll be happy to do a presentation in the month of January. I'm available to counsel clients on co-dependency issues.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Human Beahavior, Psychology
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Anatomy of Bipolar Disorder
Anatomy of Bipolar Disorder
She emotionally snapped when the attorney told her that her Mother decided to remove her from the will. It was just too emotionally overwhelming for her to cope with when faced with the realty of her mother disinheriting her from the family. It was an abandonment, a betrayal, a profound emotional experience of separation. So much that she felt the emotional disconnect of her self actually taking place. It was in fact the last of a lifetime of abuse. Her Mom's action of disinheritance was the straw that broke her emotionally! It was clear from that traumatic experience that resulted in her profound anxiety and depression. She felt the emotional break within. It was very painful. The subsequent medications that the Doctors gave her were temporary fixes to her emotional disconnect, her anxiety, her depression. She attempted psycho-verbal therapy but it lacked the power of empowerment to access her deep seated, hard wired, imprinted, ingrained, compulsively obsessive pain energy caused by the traumatic emotional break within her emotional body. She would say it felt like hell on earth to experience the sudden onset of panic attacks.
The primal sound helped significantly. The circular healing breath became the catylst for experiencing and releasing the profound pain energy. The loving support she received in her tantra sessions sealed the healing she experienced within her emotional body. Soon, she threw the medications away and experienced a rebirth, a renaissance, an integration of her emotional body. The profound anxiety and depression began to gradually dissipate and she began to "feel" emotionally whole and integrated again.
This was an anatomy of the dissipation of a biploar history with a happy ending.
Please check out and purchase my two books in the side panel, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available to offer presentations for fees and expenses in the month of January. I'm available to counsel those who suffer from co-dependency issues. Please contact me by way phoning me. Contact infomation is on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Psycholgoy of Human Behavior
She emotionally snapped when the attorney told her that her Mother decided to remove her from the will. It was just too emotionally overwhelming for her to cope with when faced with the realty of her mother disinheriting her from the family. It was an abandonment, a betrayal, a profound emotional experience of separation. So much that she felt the emotional disconnect of her self actually taking place. It was in fact the last of a lifetime of abuse. Her Mom's action of disinheritance was the straw that broke her emotionally! It was clear from that traumatic experience that resulted in her profound anxiety and depression. She felt the emotional break within. It was very painful. The subsequent medications that the Doctors gave her were temporary fixes to her emotional disconnect, her anxiety, her depression. She attempted psycho-verbal therapy but it lacked the power of empowerment to access her deep seated, hard wired, imprinted, ingrained, compulsively obsessive pain energy caused by the traumatic emotional break within her emotional body. She would say it felt like hell on earth to experience the sudden onset of panic attacks.
The primal sound helped significantly. The circular healing breath became the catylst for experiencing and releasing the profound pain energy. The loving support she received in her tantra sessions sealed the healing she experienced within her emotional body. Soon, she threw the medications away and experienced a rebirth, a renaissance, an integration of her emotional body. The profound anxiety and depression began to gradually dissipate and she began to "feel" emotionally whole and integrated again.
This was an anatomy of the dissipation of a biploar history with a happy ending.
Please check out and purchase my two books in the side panel, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available to offer presentations for fees and expenses in the month of January. I'm available to counsel those who suffer from co-dependency issues. Please contact me by way phoning me. Contact infomation is on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Psycholgoy of Human Behavior
Monday, December 6, 2010
On Emotionally Giving
On Emotionally Giving
Tantra is a activity where partners can authentically give emotionally to each other. It's definitely a very touchy and feelly activity. Most people just do not realize how emotionally needy they've become! One begins to realize the depth of ones emotional neediness by giving and recieving emotionally in a Tantra session.
The facilitator sets firm boundaries between men and women who participate in the Tantra Activity. The participants spend approximately four to five minutes in their exercises of giving and receiving emotional support, caring, kind, gentle, touch.
It's truly a nurturing experience. Please just goggle Tantra and you'll find local Tantra facilitators in your area.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and please purchase my books to the right of this post. I've written a chapter about Tantra in my book, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love".
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Masters of Psychology Human Behavior
Tantra is a activity where partners can authentically give emotionally to each other. It's definitely a very touchy and feelly activity. Most people just do not realize how emotionally needy they've become! One begins to realize the depth of ones emotional neediness by giving and recieving emotionally in a Tantra session.
The facilitator sets firm boundaries between men and women who participate in the Tantra Activity. The participants spend approximately four to five minutes in their exercises of giving and receiving emotional support, caring, kind, gentle, touch.
It's truly a nurturing experience. Please just goggle Tantra and you'll find local Tantra facilitators in your area.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and please purchase my books to the right of this post. I've written a chapter about Tantra in my book, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love".
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Masters of Psychology Human Behavior
Sunday, December 5, 2010
The "Residence" of the "Great Spirit"!
The "Residence" of the "Great Spirit"!
Where does the "Great Spirit" reside? The "Great Spirit" resides within ourselves and out side of ourselves. The result of my processing "anxiety" issue by primal sound, and the manifestations of emotional release is to expereince the "connection" with the "Great Spirit" within and out side of my self! It's truly an uplifting and zestful experience. The term that I will use is "WoW" It's the best way for me to express it.
It's never worthwhile to hide from your pain, put the pain aside, distract yourself from the pain, or in any way shape or form be a being in denial of the pain! It's incumbent upon me to learn as I have to effectively, efficiently, with discipline to "experience" it with zest!
This concept of "experiencing" the so-called "pain" is knowing that "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" is truly within! The nuances of the rainbow lay within. I know because I Dare to Heal by feeling them again, again, and again. No, I'm not a masochist but an adventurer of emotional frontiers. Just think about becoming an explorer, an adventurer of emotional frontiers. What a concept!
Please go ahead and place a link on your wordpress, on your blog, on your website (if and when it resonates with you to do so) so others can experience or dare to experience the thoughts, the feelings, the concepts, the "emotions" that I raise with these words.
The very, very, best to you this holiday season and please purchase and check out my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power"! They truly do make for congruent gifts this holiday season for your religious instiutuions, families, friends, and acquaintnaces. Simply stated the books are treasures and reflect what I write in both blogs.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psychology (accredited university) Human Behavior
Where does the "Great Spirit" reside? The "Great Spirit" resides within ourselves and out side of ourselves. The result of my processing "anxiety" issue by primal sound, and the manifestations of emotional release is to expereince the "connection" with the "Great Spirit" within and out side of my self! It's truly an uplifting and zestful experience. The term that I will use is "WoW" It's the best way for me to express it.
It's never worthwhile to hide from your pain, put the pain aside, distract yourself from the pain, or in any way shape or form be a being in denial of the pain! It's incumbent upon me to learn as I have to effectively, efficiently, with discipline to "experience" it with zest!
This concept of "experiencing" the so-called "pain" is knowing that "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" is truly within! The nuances of the rainbow lay within. I know because I Dare to Heal by feeling them again, again, and again. No, I'm not a masochist but an adventurer of emotional frontiers. Just think about becoming an explorer, an adventurer of emotional frontiers. What a concept!
Please go ahead and place a link on your wordpress, on your blog, on your website (if and when it resonates with you to do so) so others can experience or dare to experience the thoughts, the feelings, the concepts, the "emotions" that I raise with these words.
The very, very, best to you this holiday season and please purchase and check out my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power"! They truly do make for congruent gifts this holiday season for your religious instiutuions, families, friends, and acquaintnaces. Simply stated the books are treasures and reflect what I write in both blogs.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin, M.A. Masters of Psychology (accredited university) Human Behavior
The Unhealthy, Unholy, Marriage of Fear, Knee Jerk - Reaction Formation and Denial!
The Unhealthy, Unholy, Marriage of Fear, Knee Jerk -Reaction Formation and Denial!
I write about the three distinct ways of being hurt and traumatized. Physical Organic (which reflects physical pain), Unfulfilled Needs ( frozen, chronic, past, and present, which reflects pain), and the definitive different intensity of feelings reflective of the range of emotions, anger through rage, fear through terror, and sadness through grief.
When a human being is overwhelmed by daily hurt or trauma (exposed to emotional abuse, for example) layer upon layer of emotionally painful onion skins accumulates. It's truly overwhelming. One cannot bare being emotionally devasted again and again and again. It's natural for a human being to shut down and experience a knee jerk reaction, form a pattern of denial! It's called simply "emotional survival".
The embracing of the fear through a variety of methods over time; it's release, relinquishment, and letting g0 results in a healthy divorce between the layers of intensity of feelings reflective of from fear through terror. The result is the resolution of the knee jerk reaction formation, as well as the denial that it ever existed. Again, it require persistent effective/efficient processing. The intensity of fear, the knee jerk reaction formation, and the denial part ways. The result is a healthy divorce! Realty returns!
Please check out my website at http://www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books to the right of this blog. Please go ahead and place a link www.idaretoheal.blogspot.com on your wordpress or blog as well. My books are a worthwhile purchase. I also want to thank those of you flattery aside for taking the time to comment. I just want to wish you all a healthy, happy, and abundant holiday season. I'll be glad to hold an "Animated Laughter with Feelings" class if and when there are ten participants. Please contact me at 619-584-8093. Animated Laughter with Feelings is on youtube.com
Best
Joel V.
I write about the three distinct ways of being hurt and traumatized. Physical Organic (which reflects physical pain), Unfulfilled Needs ( frozen, chronic, past, and present, which reflects pain), and the definitive different intensity of feelings reflective of the range of emotions, anger through rage, fear through terror, and sadness through grief.
When a human being is overwhelmed by daily hurt or trauma (exposed to emotional abuse, for example) layer upon layer of emotionally painful onion skins accumulates. It's truly overwhelming. One cannot bare being emotionally devasted again and again and again. It's natural for a human being to shut down and experience a knee jerk reaction, form a pattern of denial! It's called simply "emotional survival".
The embracing of the fear through a variety of methods over time; it's release, relinquishment, and letting g0 results in a healthy divorce between the layers of intensity of feelings reflective of from fear through terror. The result is the resolution of the knee jerk reaction formation, as well as the denial that it ever existed. Again, it require persistent effective/efficient processing. The intensity of fear, the knee jerk reaction formation, and the denial part ways. The result is a healthy divorce! Realty returns!
Please check out my website at http://www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books to the right of this blog. Please go ahead and place a link www.idaretoheal.blogspot.com on your wordpress or blog as well. My books are a worthwhile purchase. I also want to thank those of you flattery aside for taking the time to comment. I just want to wish you all a healthy, happy, and abundant holiday season. I'll be glad to hold an "Animated Laughter with Feelings" class if and when there are ten participants. Please contact me at 619-584-8093. Animated Laughter with Feelings is on youtube.com
Best
Joel V.
Friday, December 3, 2010
Unfulfilled Need in Relationship
Unfulfilled Need in Relationship
Neediness often arises in relationship and co-dependence often results. If and when a partner isn't taking personal responsibility for their own unfulfilled neediness reflective of their own unfulfilled needs or if and when they are needing their partner to fill their unfulfilled needs conflict in relationship can result.
The "needy" partner can often become obsessed with getting their neediness met by requiring their partner to be available to them if and when necessary on call. The neediness behavior is unhealthy and often alienates a partner in the relationship. Their partner usually becomes estranged by the obsessed neediness of their mate and reacts/responds by becoming emotionally and physically unavailable.
The solution is for the partner who obsesses, who is needy, to take responsibility for his/her behavior and begin to "feel their internalized pain" and release, relinquish, discharge, let go of, and transmit the painful energy reflective of their neediness out of their body.
The partner can accomplish this goal by learning a variety of ways to process their painful obsessive energy. In fact, their mate can assist the needy partner to direct their energy within to address, access, connect with, the painful neediness and release it.
I speak about a variety of methods in my books to your right "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please be good enough to purchase and read about the methods in the books.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Neediness often arises in relationship and co-dependence often results. If and when a partner isn't taking personal responsibility for their own unfulfilled neediness reflective of their own unfulfilled needs or if and when they are needing their partner to fill their unfulfilled needs conflict in relationship can result.
The "needy" partner can often become obsessed with getting their neediness met by requiring their partner to be available to them if and when necessary on call. The neediness behavior is unhealthy and often alienates a partner in the relationship. Their partner usually becomes estranged by the obsessed neediness of their mate and reacts/responds by becoming emotionally and physically unavailable.
The solution is for the partner who obsesses, who is needy, to take responsibility for his/her behavior and begin to "feel their internalized pain" and release, relinquish, discharge, let go of, and transmit the painful energy reflective of their neediness out of their body.
The partner can accomplish this goal by learning a variety of ways to process their painful obsessive energy. In fact, their mate can assist the needy partner to direct their energy within to address, access, connect with, the painful neediness and release it.
I speak about a variety of methods in my books to your right "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please be good enough to purchase and read about the methods in the books.
Best
Joel V. BA. Education, BBA. Business Admin. M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior.
Unfulfilled Needs Continued!
Unfulfilled Needs Continued!
Please refer to my post about "unfulfilled frozen chronic needs". Well, there are three remaining unfulfilled needs that create pain for humankind. They are the unfulfilled chronic past, unfulfilled past, and present unfulfilled needs.
I break unfulfilled needs down into for distinct and very different entities. For the most part, we don't even take notice of any difference at all between the differences of unfulfilled needs. We don't even as a matter of fact think about the differences. However, they are all very, very, different.
Most counselors, therapists, psychiatrists don't even consider the unique differences in the four categories of unfulfilled needs. I have, I've worked extensively with them and experienced all four. My research for the most part has been both non-verbal (different patterns of circular healing breathwork) and verbal in peer counseling sessions over the past 43 years.
The circular healing breathwork facilitates connection with different depths, degrees, dimensions, and facets of feelings reflective of emotions. The circular healing breathwork facilitates "access", a going-into, a connection with, a release, relinquishment, a letting go, and trasmitting the feelings reflective of the "pain" reflective of unfulfilled past and present needs out of the body by way of the manifestations of emotional release. In this way, I've been able to experience the unique differences of the four unfulfilled past and present needs.
When a senior experiences loneliness because of living alone; they may also experience a unfulfilled present need for attachment. The attachment to others is just not there. The pain of present unfulfilled need gradually accumulates and the senior becomes disconnected to parts of themselves. Sadness and depression develop and unfortuantely "suicide" is all to common among seniors. The "pain" of the present unfulfilled need reflective of the issue of loneliness causes the "disconnect" to self. The senior experiences isolation. This situation may be true of anyone who experiences lonliness at any age.
I will explain unfulfilled past chronic needs and unfulfilled past needs in later posts.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com. Please purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependence issues or I'm certainly open to donations to keep on posting this information. Please make your checks payable to Life's Breath Publications and Ministries. My contact information is on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin. M.A., Psychology of Human Behavior
Please refer to my post about "unfulfilled frozen chronic needs". Well, there are three remaining unfulfilled needs that create pain for humankind. They are the unfulfilled chronic past, unfulfilled past, and present unfulfilled needs.
I break unfulfilled needs down into for distinct and very different entities. For the most part, we don't even take notice of any difference at all between the differences of unfulfilled needs. We don't even as a matter of fact think about the differences. However, they are all very, very, different.
Most counselors, therapists, psychiatrists don't even consider the unique differences in the four categories of unfulfilled needs. I have, I've worked extensively with them and experienced all four. My research for the most part has been both non-verbal (different patterns of circular healing breathwork) and verbal in peer counseling sessions over the past 43 years.
The circular healing breathwork facilitates connection with different depths, degrees, dimensions, and facets of feelings reflective of emotions. The circular healing breathwork facilitates "access", a going-into, a connection with, a release, relinquishment, a letting go, and trasmitting the feelings reflective of the "pain" reflective of unfulfilled past and present needs out of the body by way of the manifestations of emotional release. In this way, I've been able to experience the unique differences of the four unfulfilled past and present needs.
When a senior experiences loneliness because of living alone; they may also experience a unfulfilled present need for attachment. The attachment to others is just not there. The pain of present unfulfilled need gradually accumulates and the senior becomes disconnected to parts of themselves. Sadness and depression develop and unfortuantely "suicide" is all to common among seniors. The "pain" of the present unfulfilled need reflective of the issue of loneliness causes the "disconnect" to self. The senior experiences isolation. This situation may be true of anyone who experiences lonliness at any age.
I will explain unfulfilled past chronic needs and unfulfilled past needs in later posts.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com. Please purchase my books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love" and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependence issues or I'm certainly open to donations to keep on posting this information. Please make your checks payable to Life's Breath Publications and Ministries. My contact information is on my website.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin. M.A., Psychology of Human Behavior
Thursday, December 2, 2010
"The Dance"
Often, in co-dependent relationships a "dance of neediness" exits. It's a non-verbal dance of "if and when you fill my need, I'll fill your need". The dance can be non-verbal in ones body language or it can be quite verbal. It's usually both verbal and non-verbal. It's a relationship based on insecurity and neediness. The dance is mistaken for love. It's not love, it's a disease.
Love is heart felt and comes from giving of oneself emotionally to another. Love is thoughtful and felt authentically. It can even be unconditional in its emotional quality and quantity.
The dance of neediness can be in the form of control, compliance, denial, and low self-esteem. The dance of love can be in the form of a giving, receiving, and come from the authentic self.
The dance of love is mature and giving, while the dance of neediness is inmature and self-centered. The dance of neediness comes from scarcity and dependence and the dance of love comes from abundance and a sense of self-independence, healthy, and happy!
What is your present dance?
I counsel others on co-dependent issues in San Diego. Please check out my website at www.idaretoheal.com, please purchase the books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please check out my other website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com. I'm a broker with many different health insurance companies.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M. A. Master's in Psychology, Human Behavior.
Often, in co-dependent relationships a "dance of neediness" exits. It's a non-verbal dance of "if and when you fill my need, I'll fill your need". The dance can be non-verbal in ones body language or it can be quite verbal. It's usually both verbal and non-verbal. It's a relationship based on insecurity and neediness. The dance is mistaken for love. It's not love, it's a disease.
Love is heart felt and comes from giving of oneself emotionally to another. Love is thoughtful and felt authentically. It can even be unconditional in its emotional quality and quantity.
The dance of neediness can be in the form of control, compliance, denial, and low self-esteem. The dance of love can be in the form of a giving, receiving, and come from the authentic self.
The dance of love is mature and giving, while the dance of neediness is inmature and self-centered. The dance of neediness comes from scarcity and dependence and the dance of love comes from abundance and a sense of self-independence, healthy, and happy!
What is your present dance?
I counsel others on co-dependent issues in San Diego. Please check out my website at www.idaretoheal.com, please purchase the books, "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love", and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". Please check out my other website, www.healthplansinsandiego.com. I'm a broker with many different health insurance companies.
Best
Joel V. BA, Education, BBA, Business Admin., M. A. Master's in Psychology, Human Behavior.
"Unfulfilled Frozen Chronic Needs"
There are four kinds of Unfulfilled Needs that are at the root of depression and or anxiety. Often, the unfulfilled needs occur because one has not "consistently" experienced the fulfillment of basic emotional needs for loving care at different development stages from birth through the formative years and loving attention from the formative years, adolescents, and adulthood.
Unfulfilled Needs can also occur because of experiences of physical and emotional abuse, abandonment, separation, betrayal.
Unfulfilled Frozen Chronic Past Needs are the most devastating of all. Birth Trauma is the best example. A human being experiencing rage during the formative years is yet another example.
Unfulfilled Frozen Chronic Past Needs is the toughest of the feelings reflective of the painful emotions to access and resolve. If left unresolved it can cause endless deep depression and anxiety lifelong. Unfulfilled "Frozen" Chronic Past Needs reflect chronic distress on going, all, all the time. It reflects high anxiety and deep depression. It's misery personified. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is yet another example.
Primal Sound is used to access, go into, connect with, and release relinquish, let go, and transmit the pain out of the body again, again, and again. Primal Sound and Primordial Sound are the only two sounds that have the power to access and go through the "frozen" disconnect of body, mind, and spirit. The "Sounds" learned through the practice of different circular breaths create "The Connection" with/within the feelings reflective of the emotions. The "Sounds" past through the "Frozen" stuck emotional walls and are catlysts that facilitate access to our feelings. It is then that we can release, relinquish, let go, and transmit painful feelings out of the body by way of the myriad manifestations of emotional release. We can gradually, gradually, gradually over time with consistency experience human bliss, freedom, and contentment. Anixiety and Depression gradually, gradually, dissipate. The use of the inhibitors end as well. Think, freedom from medications!
There are other methods such as EFT, the tapping and EMDR, the eye movements, hypnosis that may also be used. However, I know that primal sound and primordial sound "definitely" resolve the issue of the unfulfilled "frozen" chronic needs. I'm skeptical if other methods definitely resolve it. We are using natural methods with primal sound, and the manifestations of emotional release. Where is the other methods are indirect and usually are not as, as effective.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love, and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependency issues. Contact info located on my website. I'm an expert with health insurance. Please go to www.healthplansinsandiego.com.
Best
Joel V BA Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
There are four kinds of Unfulfilled Needs that are at the root of depression and or anxiety. Often, the unfulfilled needs occur because one has not "consistently" experienced the fulfillment of basic emotional needs for loving care at different development stages from birth through the formative years and loving attention from the formative years, adolescents, and adulthood.
Unfulfilled Needs can also occur because of experiences of physical and emotional abuse, abandonment, separation, betrayal.
Unfulfilled Frozen Chronic Past Needs are the most devastating of all. Birth Trauma is the best example. A human being experiencing rage during the formative years is yet another example.
Unfulfilled Frozen Chronic Past Needs is the toughest of the feelings reflective of the painful emotions to access and resolve. If left unresolved it can cause endless deep depression and anxiety lifelong. Unfulfilled "Frozen" Chronic Past Needs reflect chronic distress on going, all, all the time. It reflects high anxiety and deep depression. It's misery personified. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is yet another example.
Primal Sound is used to access, go into, connect with, and release relinquish, let go, and transmit the pain out of the body again, again, and again. Primal Sound and Primordial Sound are the only two sounds that have the power to access and go through the "frozen" disconnect of body, mind, and spirit. The "Sounds" learned through the practice of different circular breaths create "The Connection" with/within the feelings reflective of the emotions. The "Sounds" past through the "Frozen" stuck emotional walls and are catlysts that facilitate access to our feelings. It is then that we can release, relinquish, let go, and transmit painful feelings out of the body by way of the myriad manifestations of emotional release. We can gradually, gradually, gradually over time with consistency experience human bliss, freedom, and contentment. Anixiety and Depression gradually, gradually, dissipate. The use of the inhibitors end as well. Think, freedom from medications!
There are other methods such as EFT, the tapping and EMDR, the eye movements, hypnosis that may also be used. However, I know that primal sound and primordial sound "definitely" resolve the issue of the unfulfilled "frozen" chronic needs. I'm skeptical if other methods definitely resolve it. We are using natural methods with primal sound, and the manifestations of emotional release. Where is the other methods are indirect and usually are not as, as effective.
Please check out my website, www.idaretoheal.com and purchase my books "I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love, and "I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power". I'm available for counseling on co-dependency issues. Contact info located on my website. I'm an expert with health insurance. Please go to www.healthplansinsandiego.com.
Best
Joel V BA Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A. Psychology of Human Behavior
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