Controllers

Controllers

Patterns of Control come in many manipulations, patterns, but only four categories. First, We need to stay alert/aware to what, how, others say, their body language, and their "behaviors"!
For example, If and when someone asks you for your phone number, do you question the reason they're asking for your phone number? What are the circumstances/situation that motivates them to request your phone number. Is the asking for your phone number about them, about their neediness, their dependence, their co-dependence. Are they asking for your phone number to help, support you or is it "all about them"?

This is also true regarding relationships. What is the purpose for someone requesting your phone number after you have met them in a dating situation/circumstance?

Please check out the controllers body language. Is the body language rigid? Is what they say, how they say it monotone, has rigidity in its tone of voice?

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Joel V. BA, Education, BBA Business Marketing, M.A Psychology of Human Behavior.